So what's this erection thing all about?

[ShyRyder]

This post is in regards to pook's embrace your sexuality and gunwitch meathod. Lets say hypothitically that some dude had an intense fear of embarrasement when getting and erection in public.(not me) These issuse steming for childhood(not me)is being solved but in the back of my mind im thinking. "what if my shlt is not doing what it suppose to do while it's suppose to do it"

Now i can get an erection while approching but during the conversation I can't maintain. So i'm wondering when are you suppose to be sexually excited while with a girl.
maybe i'm thinking too much about it and trying to will my penis to stand isn't the right way to go.

Is it one of those thinks that when your lost in conversation and completely relaxed(which i am now) it will take care of it self. slowly and naturally.

through kino? are u suppose to play fight or somthing

is it outside the conversation, are u suppose to gwak at tities and ass

please humor me i'm clueless and i want some sex to go with my new found confidence.

-bless up

 

[Life-Trainee]

Wait, do you (not you) want (hypothetically) to get erection while talking to girls?

 

[donjan]

Originally posted by Life-Trainee
Wait, do you (not you) want (hypothetically) to get erection while talking to girls?

Well, at least you have some suspicion of what he's talking about.

 

[diablo]

AE...

You might want to run a search. Some results will probably be of interest to you, like these:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/search...d=192401&sortby=lastpost&sortorder=descending

 

[Coolage]

why not just say you instead of telling a lie on an anonymous message board?

as for your question, it was not comprehensible

 

[diablo]

Originally posted by Coolage
why not just say you instead of telling a lie on an anonymous message board?

I did like these parts though...

Originally posted by ShyRyder
Lets say hypothitically that some dude had an intense fear of embarrasement when getting and erection in public.(not me) These issuse steming for childhood(not me)... Now i

 

[Coolage]

you just have to love that.

 

[undesputable]

haha....what????? wait so youre saying that you get erections when you approach a girl, and youre mad because you cant maintain it when youre talking to her? thats too ****ing funny. youre supposed to get erections when you get sexually excited with a girl...i.e when shes ready to suck you ****, when youre ready to **** her brains out or something along those lines....

 

[Unregistered]

I'm gonna try this whole erection thing.

 

[whistler]

Originally posted by ShyRyder
This post is in regards to pook's embrace your sexuality and gunwitch meathod. Lets say hypothitically that some dude had an intense fear of embarrasement when getting and erection in public.(not me) These issuse steming for childhood(not me)is being solved but in the back of my mind im thinking. "what if my shlt is not doing what it suppose to do while it's suppose to do it"

Now i can get an erection while approching but during the conversation I can't maintain. So i'm wondering when are you suppose to be sexually excited while with a girl.
maybe i'm thinking too much about it and trying to will my penis to stand isn't the right way to go.

Is it one of those thinks that when your lost in conversation and completely relaxed(which i am now) it will take care of it self. slowly and naturally.

through kino? are u suppose to play fight or somthing

is it outside the conversation, are u suppose to gwak at tities and ass

please humor me i'm clueless and i want some sex to go with my new found confidence.

-bless up

No offense dude. This had me laughing pretty hard.

Do you want your d|ck to go up or down when you're talking to a girl?

2 things:

1. I STILL (!) get erections too easily if I'm with a hot new girl for the first time. This subsides after we've had sex a few times.

2. I usually don't want to be in public with an erection. People tend to notice. LOL

Just to clarify...
Up = good when you're about to have sex
Down = good when strangers might notice your schlong

Good luck with that...

 

[ShyRyder]

yah I was trying to make in comical.
I said it was in regard to pook's embrace your sexuality but let me dumb it down.

yes i want me penis to be erect when in the talking, looking,sitting beside, eating with and every possible senario ill be in with females.

In the past I was scared to show my sexuality(boner) because I didn't want to get embarresed with a girl. (laugh all u want bastards)

now i think my sexuality might not be expressing itself as it should be.



when first attracting a girl
1. Is it something i should worry about and try to force a boner while in conversation or just focus on the ladies and let things happen naturally????

cause in past i had lots of anxiety and couldn't relax

if your not aware of how your body is at all times then you can't really answer, cause some people don't know when their nervous, sexually exited etc etc

 

[Giovanni Casanova]

Originally posted by ShyRyder
yes i want me penis to be erect when in the talking, looking,sitting beside, eating with and every possible senario ill be in with females.

Erections lasting longer than four hours, though rare, should be treated by a medical professional. Jesus, man, don't you watch the Cialis commercials?

There is no human way to maintain an erection the way you're talking about unless you put your d*ck in a splint or something.

 

[ShyRyder]

Is this some sort of hazeing? u know i'm not new here.
no i dont want a 24-7 erection.......... well ummm.......no your missing the point of my post. ah forget it

ill figure it out

 

[exwhyzee]

Wow this has to be the most bizarre poste ever. I have never heard nor seen anybody purposly try to pop a boner in public here in the states. I did not think things in Canada were that different, but you ShyRyder, are very strange. Generally, unless your around a complete nympho, girls do not like to see **** out of a sexual/private/intimate setting...For example everytime I have seen someone streak all the girls scream and say "EWWWW!". Since I have not seen anyone pop a boner in front of a girl they were talking to, I would have to say that it would have a similar effect. Keep the snake in its cage and unaroused while in public pal.

 

[thefonz]

Senor Fingers has taught me to be proud of my boner

I remember a year ago when i was flirting with this girl REALLY heavily when we were at work and I pretty much pulled her up against me and started rubbing her shoulders and talking about how hot she was "OMG, you are so ****ing cute. I'd like to eat these chips out your cleavage. Lemme feel your stomach, oh WOW. It's like Michalangelo painted this thing."(warning: i do NOT advocate saying this, it worked for the moment i was in)....she was standing there giggling at everything I said and all I ended up doing was getting MYSELF hot. So inevitably my boner appears as i'm rubbing her shoulders and saying these things. At this point I become quieter out of embarrasment and I notice something......she's actually pulling herself closer to me as I get hard, unfreakin believable. But since we're at work I try to cool things down a little by talking to my co-worker across the room more and eventually bail out.

I've learned though not let my boner be covered, it's an expression of how i'm feeling about someone in the moment....we need to erase that image of standing in the high school hall with a stiffy and all the girls standing, pointing, and laughing. I think of this situation whenever i am self conscious about this stuff. If i am digging a girl and we're not out in the open in public, i don't feel like a perv popping one up if thats what i feel like doing

 

[Giovanni Casanova]

Originally posted by thefonz
I've learned though not let my boner be covered, it's an expression of how i'm feeling about someone in the moment....we need to erase that image of standing in the high school hall with a stiffy and all the girls standing, pointing, and laughing.

haha, right... I don't disagree with you there. But there's a difference between not hiding a naturally occuring hard-on and saying, "I want to be hard when I talk to her. I want to be hard when we eat lunch together. I want to be hard when I watch 'Golden Girls' with her. I want to be hard when she talks about how her dog died last night. Giggity-giggity-giggity!"

 

[familyguyfan]

Yeah she's gonna think that's weird if you have a boner when you're just having a normal conversation with her. She'll write you off as a desperate, horny bastard. Save it for when you're heavily flirting and/or about to hook up with her.

 

[TACH]

Let's go take viagra and pull people over with raging mega huge boners!

I fail to see why you would want to approach with an erection... knockin **** off tables and scaring all the children.

Hard-ons watching the Golden Girls? Ewww.