"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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So what!?

NotYourAverageJoe5

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Anyway interesting thing happened tonight that gave me some real insight. For the pass week I've been visiting a family member in the hospital every night. I haven't really seen any cute nurses. Asked a male nurse if their were any cute nurses. Told me to check out a hot one in respitory. I'm like why not, got nothing else better to do. I can't find this place for my life. (Note: this hospital is big and sucks at have directions to where things are at.) Anyway looking around to ask for directions, and I spot this nurse. She's kind of cute.

Me: Excuse me do you know where respitory is?

Her: Are you looking for a person?

Me: Nah just respitory. (I decide to just be honest just for the hell of it.) I heard there was cute nurse in respitory.

Her: Are you kidding? (Looks at me like I'm nuts.)

<Silence>:confused:

Me: This is akward. I'm just gonna go.:whistle: (Turn around and laugh my ass off in the elevator.)

Figured out something from that experince, it was a lot like rejection. What was there to be scared of? Sure I felt a bit embarassed, but hell found it a lot more funnier. Realized that's what I've been afraid of in asking for number and all that, that kind of reaction. And you know what? It's NO big deal. I feel great. Feel like I could approach and stuff right now. Can't believe I've been afraid of that! It's nuts. Deff want to continue now, execpt for asking cute nurses where other hot nurses are.:rolleyes:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Jay Jay

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Lol

Welcome to a beautiful new reality!

There is nothing to fear.

The worse a rejection the funnier it is.

JJ
 
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