"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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So What Would you Do Master Dons?

JJ007

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Hi guys, wondering if you can give me your opinion on
- how you would respond,
- what you think of my game so far here
- What do you read in her email
...Thanks.

Okay....Story so far:

A. 12th Jan : COLD APPROACH: Was in the Bank, so this hot Korean Bird enters. I finished my business and went outside and waited for her to appear. waited 15 mins...no sign of her ...left...took a walk around the block...Thought can't leave it I've allready wasted 15 mins...So I went back...she was still in their ....waited another 20 mins....eventually she comes out...But, I froze and she walked pass....Headed back to my car and she was heading in the same direction....I caught up with her and was walking alongside her and I said.." Excuse me, I just wanted to say...that you look very elagant and I just wanted to tell you that..."....4-5 mins of fluff talk ensued....I asked for her number...but she was uncomfortable...I then asked for email...which she was okay with...I think I deliberately put a character wrong...which she promptly corrected....gave her my number and said goodbye

B. 16th Jan - waited 4 days & emailed her as follows... " Hi H, this is J...we met last Thursday…..Hope your well.
...It was unusual the way we met.....But I saw you….You looked very elegant….And I wanted to meet you, So I did ;-)
Anyway, How are you? How was your weekend?
J :) "

C. No response

D. 23rd JAN - I sent another email as follows...."(email Title) You Talk Too much... ...Hi H,
That's really nice to hear; But can I have a chance to speak now!....lol....lol
...Hey you can't play hard to get already! you don't even know me ;-))
Talk to me....How have you been....how was your weekend?
Take care
J :))"

E: I received a response 12 minns later as follows....
" Hello.
How are you?
This is H.
It sounds bit strange. I haven't sent you any e-mail before. It seems you have one.

Anyway I'm sorry I didn't reply e-mail earlier.
I was so busy.

It was really nice you spoke to me in nice way on the street.

It would be nice to meet you some time. But I think I have to let you know that I have boy friend.

Thank you so much for your kindness though!

Hope you are fine and have a good day.
Thanks again!"

Okay, so tell me Master Don Juans how would you advise me to respond...I was thinking of sending an email on 24th Jan...saying

" nice to hear from you....No worry about the boyfriend I didn't expect a girl like you to b single...but it's always nice to make anew friend.

Anyway this week is really busy for me...but next week would be good...Tue or Wed? let me know what days good for you and I'll work out the details...take care have agood day....J :)) "

Once, i have your responses I'll try and amalgamate the best parts and hopefully come out with a great reponse.

I will post progress of this situation as it develops...Thanks for responses...

Oh and I feel good just yesterday cold approached Miss Uk....talked 10 mins or so...but no luck with number...But felt good :))
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Nighthawk

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Elegant?

Your email was terrible. You come across as needing her approval and that it was a big deal that you approached. You say nothing of interest and ask her how she is about five times.

Your second email was even needier - and should never have been sent without a response for the first. Though there are plenty of advocates of the 'make the ho say no' policy.

Forget it JJ, it's Chinatown.
 

ElChoclo

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I think they call it cost-benefit analysis.

Work out how much time you spend constructing these emails and measure it against the likelihood of some meaningful outcome. This one has an outcome similar to that for Lotto.

Emails are great for spammers, but you are not one are you?

Game over, press reset.
 
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