"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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So what got you, and how long, have you been into "game"

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Borknagar

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For me it was MAJOR onitis or whatever the hell it's call, I was a huge AFC was a hot girlfriend who dumped me in a month. I then, tried for a month to constantly try to get back with her only to get blown out, and she didn't wanna talk to me any more. I was single for 6 years, haven't got any for 9 months,, and it was usually maybe a couple times a year I'd get lucky. Fortunately after that last blow out I hooked up with a 18 year old HB 7, LOL,But she a nut job, That made me feel better was but still bummed. Then met a friend who started talking about pickup artists. I was too lazy to read any of the ****, but thought I'd go sarging with him anyway.(I know I am registered here in 2001, but I left not to long after, I thought this was just a small forum for men, never knew there was a whole scene and all and came back last year. I have a good memory so I remembered my email I registered with and what not. I remembered this forum cause when he said AFC, I was like, hey I know that term! )

I got pretty decent pretty fast, within a couple months he was seeing me get makeouts and numbers like crazy but would usually get flaked, like we all do and I still do sometimes. I started getting more ONS about 4 months later. Now since I got into game I've hooked up with over 20 women.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Black Dog

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HAHA...I remember checking Yahoo Answers! for "how to spit game." That quickly led to discovering The Game on amazon.com, then I downloaded the E-Book...

....disconnected from The Matrix.....


...the rest is history.

I will always cherish the first few weeks where I doled out opinion openers like crazy, I holding conversation like never before; it was like finding cheat codes to a video game.

Luckily I found this site though, it's way more well-rounded.
 
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Alex DeLarge

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I went throught a 2 year dry spell of not getting any girls I really desired, then I finally hooked up with one girl when I was drunk that I was super into at the time.

I got extremely clingy with her within the first week and she friendzoned me. I went into a sort of depression after this. Thought I was just incredibly ugly for the longest time, let people walk all over me and was going nowhere with my life in general.

Then I moved out of my parent's house for college. Got an apartment in the city with a few friends.. I was bored one day and searched in google "How to get chicks" cause I wanted to finally get laid. (still a virgin today haha) well, I found this website. Since then I have got makeouts, BJ's, HJ's.. From about 10 different girls. That's almost triple the amount of girls I had just kissed before finding this site.

I've always been extremely socially awkward with women due to being raised mainly by my mother, grandmother, and aunt. They always got me thinking that women have this "Holier than thou" look at men.. They often laughed and ridiculed me too.

Been doing this stuff for about 1 year now. I gotta say, I've learned a lot too. I feel like I all ready made up for everything in the awkward teenage years.. But I'm kinda pissed I never knew this in highschool. (Girls in highschool seemed way easier than now lol).
 
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DonJuan_DeRosco

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Back in the day when I was a fresh faced 18yr old, I was going out with an HB8 for a few months, I'd always been reasonable with girls but tended to fall back into AFC ways a month or so in. After that ended I went to college and met a whole host of new people and particularly, 2 naturals whom I credit with making me 'wake up'.

During this time and listening and watching those guys, I began to notice patterns, and as the course was psychology and sociology, I decided to look more into it. Those guys bailed the course the next year and I carried on watching and experiencing those little adventures you go through. Had a 3 major gf's over the next 8 years:

1. HB6.5 was a hoe, pure and simple and I foolishly thought I could change her. Lasted 11 months.

2. HB7.5 was a lovely girl that I regret breaking up with, she worshipped me and the sex was phenomenal, haven't met another girl where it was so good. But I had a 'moment' with a ONS that I had before I met HB7.5 and I couldn't take the guilt as I was still a recovering AFC so I broke up with her. Lasted 9 Months, I still talk to her every now and then on fb and she still gives me jibes about dumping her, she's all shacked up with a new guy 3 years now. And sadly, she is now fat as hell. :p

3. HB9 was the death of the AFC in me finally, the last chance at proving what I now believed to be a certainty, wrong. Had a great initial 2 years and during the next year, it all went to hell. Guys I thought were lifelong friends brutally betrayed me with a little help from one of their evil vindictive gf's, she was a good friend of HB9 at the time but was a complete nutter and jealous. After the whole social group got destroyed, I told the lads to go their own way and I'd go mine. SO they went with nutter, much to their detriment further down the line. Me and HB9 kinda ended up getting secluded from all that *****iness, but this is what ultimately led to our break up. She couldn't handle not being in the midst of social life and I regressed to AFC things and ultimately drove her away.

It was during that last year with her that I discovered Doc Love and sosuave. During the final months, I could see what I was doing wrong and how I could have maybe turned it round, but by then I pretty much hated what I'd become (AFC) and had a morbid curiosity to see it to its inevitable conclusion. She was all for being friends and I agreed, then promptly disappeared from her life. Haven't seen or spoke to her since.

The last 2 years were the growth of the DJ within and I have made grand progress. I still have a couple of issues to work through, namely having a lack of escalation skills with a small minority of girls for some reason, but I've came a helluva long way and once again I find myself being good friends with a proper natural. And I have learned tonnes from this guy!

I won't stop learning either, have a 4 girl rotation at the minute and loving life and working to secure my engineering future.

Felt kinda good to get all that out, cheers.

;)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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