"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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So what does a wingman do?

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I never really found out wut a wingman is supposed to do.
I mean, he just walks up with you to the chick, and then wut?
does he talk to her? how does it work to ur advantage?
i mean, it'll be pretty awkward for a guy just to stand next to you and not say anything.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Someone who is good with the ladies too. If you have a good wingman and are doing it right you will get looks from chicks all across the bar/club. Approaches are also easier with someone else to talk to the friend, or share a story, etc... As long as theres no competition and guys going for the same girl. I used to have a great wingman in college who was also my roommate, he helped me keep my head straight during a oneitis or give me a motivating speech to go pick up a girl.
 
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Hi guys! i am new here! this is my first post ever :)

question: what is a oneitis?
 
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A one-itis is a girl who you're pretty obsessed with. Shes the one girl you cant get out of your mind. Approaching other girls is hard because you keep thinking about your one-itis. I'm sure others define it different but thats how it is for me.
 
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From my experience, the primary mission for a wingman is to help you isolate your target. For example, you make an approach on a group, and then he comes in and helps entertain while you pull your target to the side to close. He can (subtley) talk ya up, almost like a "DHV".
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Wolf said:
"The Wingman Service, fvcking her fat friends since 1988."
"The Wingman Service. Don't be sent on a dangerous SOLO MISSION. We'll bang her fat friends FOR YOU."

Ever seen those T-Shirts?
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No but now I want one.:rockon:
 
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a wingman is an amazing bodyguard/ brother that PUA's or DJ's have :D, as an example.

they 1. help you fight off girls that you wouldn't like to dance with (ugly girls) lol
they 2. discuss with you back and forth how to handle a situation you may come upon at any given moment.
they 3. help with any AMOG's bothering a group of girls.. an AMOG is of course a alpha male of the group. (Personal experience i had a AMOG incident this guy acted like he was the toughest guy on the block.. he was 5'2 i'm 6'2 not a nerd lol i could kick his ass,but why result to violence, i was in a group of girls i just walked up to with my wingman, me and him made a couple of jokes at him and kept our cool and he actually left and we kept the girls (they even said after he left that he was an ass) but wingman help with tough situations you may come upon and support you with insights you may not know. and side note the girls came there (4 of them) and the AMOG was trying to get with one of them but she was denying him. until me and my wingman came along.

and finally lol they are like a brother, an extra hand if you ever had a situation that the girls were sisters and one wouldn't leave the other... lol ya happened to me i had a wingman with me and we were able to take the girls home with us and we just ended the night well.

OH! and wingman help with one-itis as said before and any denies that girls may give you a wingmans always there to cheer ya up lol. you just have tp find the right one
 
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The best way I've found is to go with yourself and another and wing for each other, you should each approach seperatly but keep an eye on each other, maybe even have a signal when you need someone to come distract the clingers on your target.

They are also good for analyzing your techniques and giving feedback about how you could be doing stuff better.
 
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