"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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So what do you think about the Russian spy chick?

MatureDJ

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http://ctpatriot1970.wordpress.com/...-chapman-video-interview-hot-photo-slideshow/

OK, I've seen some pics in which she looks very good, but she looks a bit plain in these. Yes, her figure is pretty hot, and I would not hesitate to tap her. Maybe it's just that I've been to the land of Russian women a bunch of times, and I've seen some real head turners there, and this spy chick would merely be "in the pack". Is it that the American male is so used to seeing ugly American woman, that any woman who is not fat is automatically "sexy"? Or perhaps the media can't resist a 007 angle to this story?

BTW, it seems like these so-called spies weren't really ferreting out any information that couldn't be ferreted out by surfing the web, getting paid very well by the (what used to be called the) KGB in the meantime.

http://www.slate.com/id/2258658
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Teflon_Mcgee

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In some pictures I think she looks way cute. In others I don't think she looks cute at all. I'll give her the benifit of the doubt and say she is definitely cute.

Bonus points for being a spy. That's pretty hot by itself.
 

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Teflon_Mcgee said:
In some pictures I think she looks way cute. In others I don't think she looks cute at all..
This is exactly what I think too. Some pics, she's very hot, in others...not so. She's like a chamelion, perfect for a spy. Very interesting, yet bizarre too.
 

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Come on, a spy chick would make the boulevard news anywhere ;)
 

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she's kinda fugly. I've met some beautiful Russian girls and some not so beautiful ones, that one is the latter. She has a nice demeanor about her but just not pretty.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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When people lose strength of character and purpose in life then women become the default object of worship because they are aesthetically pleasing and the bestowers of one of the most sought after forms of pleasure. Wow, a woman, OMG!! Maybe it's because I've spent a lot of time in India but she looks totally ordinary to me.
 
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