"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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So what do I do now?

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OamImrsNemo

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So I had my 2nd date with her. Held her hand our kiss got....interrupted...so should I ask her for another date in two days or wait till like sunday? Im going to see her anyways fri an sat night (thats how we met) but I dont get any one on one time so should I try an get another date dj's?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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46and2aheadofme

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Please for christ sake just play it cool.

If you are gonna see her friday and saturday why would you need to hang out right before that? You are reaking of desperation.

Just ask if she wants to hang out again when you see her next.

Invite her over for a movie at your place when you know no one else is gonna be around. That way you won't get interrupted.

Good luck.
 
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Practice the 3 C's. COOL, CALM, COLLECTIVE
 
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The reason I wanna hang out with her again is so I can get some 1 on 1 time I wont on fri and sat Ill be lucky to get 2 words in then.
 
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