"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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So what do I do now?

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OamImrsNemo

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So I had my 2nd date with her. Held her hand our kiss got....interrupted...so should I ask her for another date in two days or wait till like sunday? Im going to see her anyways fri an sat night (thats how we met) but I dont get any one on one time so should I try an get another date dj's?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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46and2aheadofme

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Please for christ sake just play it cool.

If you are gonna see her friday and saturday why would you need to hang out right before that? You are reaking of desperation.

Just ask if she wants to hang out again when you see her next.

Invite her over for a movie at your place when you know no one else is gonna be around. That way you won't get interrupted.

Good luck.
 
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Practice the 3 C's. COOL, CALM, COLLECTIVE
 
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The reason I wanna hang out with her again is so I can get some 1 on 1 time I wont on fri and sat Ill be lucky to get 2 words in then.
 
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