"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So what are women reading?

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Recently I've decided to look at the game from a woman's pov, so I was interested to pick up some of their reading material to see what kind of fluff their heads were getting filled with. There was one interesting book I read a while back called the rules. It's basically the MTV generations bible on how to turn a man into a whipped and obedient one that will cater to her every whim. The book was a hilarious read but it got me wondering what else women might be reading?

I figure if you're gonna go into the battlefield you may as well know as much as you can about the enemy. (Figure of speech of course).
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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twilight series. they are all obsessed with edwards charming powers. check that out and post one here your thoughts... id be curious to see what its really like from a mans pov (and im to lazy to read it)
 

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cosmo

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As I've heard it put, most of the stuff women read is basically like a touchy-feely playboy to us. Most of them will quickly find most of the stuff doesn't work. If they did, we'd be hearing how cosmo saved someone's marriage.
 

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The irony of "the game" is that they are being told the same stuff as us. So you end up with nobody calling each other for fear of being "too available."
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

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They read all kinds of crazy stuff

"How to drive your man Crazy"

"How to make you boyfriend obsessed so that he will not cheat!"

"Things that ALL men want in bed"

Most of it should be taken with a grain of salt though. Just like a lot of things on here.
 
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