What are my chances of getting one if I am using a condom and the girl has it? It freaks me out every time before and after I have sex but I've heard the chance is so small to not even worry about it. Is pregnancy the same?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
So what are the chances of STDs really?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Drum&Bass
Master Don Juan
The only STD you have to worry about it is hepatitis. Anyone can have or get herpes, there is no way of knowing who has it or not.
Lots of people get cold sores and those cold sores go away, and those people start hooking up with other people so you never know who could have herpes.
HIV, i'm not so sure about..theres so much evidence that proves HIV to be a myth, hence why the odds of catching it are really really low. You should always use a condom though !
Lots of people get cold sores and those cold sores go away, and those people start hooking up with other people so you never know who could have herpes.
HIV, i'm not so sure about..theres so much evidence that proves HIV to be a myth, hence why the odds of catching it are really really low. You should always use a condom though !
MacAvoy
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That is what he meant but if you read his post, he's just super paranoid that every women he sleeps with might have an STD.MrS said:I think he meant she has the STD..
Like everyone said, the only 2 to worry about are Herpes and the Hiv. With the Hiv, its so rare among straight, non needle drug users that you don't have to worry about it.
With Herpes, condoms won't help, nothing will. So again, there is no point worrying about it, you'll either get it or you won't, they say 20-25% of the population has it, so there is a good chance you'll get it. Nothing you can do about it, except never have sex.
the clap, gonorhea, and craps are all very easily treatable so again no need to worry.
So the moral of the story is that STD's are a big scare that the matrix has created to try scare you into not having sex with multiple people.
Go out there and live your life, stop being scared of everything.
However that being said, the smart thing to do is always wear a condom.
comic_relief
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Good moralMacAvoy said:
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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