"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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so what are some guidelines to make sure you are not falling into the friend category

Black Casanova

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I know people say that you have to be careful not to become a "friend", but how to you make sure?

I try to use kino, but thats all I know. :confused:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Vincent

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When they strart talking about other guys to you. Your in the friends zone.

Do some research, there are a lot of posts about this. Search button and bible save lives. (Or time i forget which)
 

Smooth as Anything

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Re: Re: so what are some guidelines to make sure you are not falling into the friend

Originally posted by Vincent
When they strart talking about other guys to you. Your in the friends zone.
WRONG

Ever head of being a challenge?
 

TyTe`EyEs

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Most of the time, if they're talking about other guys with you, you're in the friends zone.
 

gav

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yep, that happened to me a wee while ago.

i got the lbbf line (let's be best friends) soon after she started talking about guys.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Viper423

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I agree 100% with Smooth...the last 2 girls that i dated talked about guys to me when we would hang out before we started dating. They would be like," Oh, so and so is soooo hot." Well, they had also told me that i was hot too before. They are just trying to be a challenge.
 
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