"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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So tired of Snapchat...

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I had heard a theory recently that because women are mostly interacting with simp/soyboy types all the time, they've come to expect certain behaviors of men, and it doesn't even occur them that alternative behaviors from men can exist. It makes sense to me.
yes if you have any boundaries you will be sent to the mental asylum
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Actually you're wrong, for some reason women love to block men on snapchat.
so weak, so pathetic.

I watched a cooking programme yesterday morning, the presenter visited a poor indian fishing village.

all the women were fit, feminine and friendly. they new theyre place and that the men kept them all alive, it was a joy to watch. They also stfu.
 

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I never understood the point of snapchat, i can just send photo on any other messaging app. I cN even send dissapearing messages
 

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On SC, are women generally looking to text through it or send pictures?

I just entered the dating scene after a long reprieve... and sc was not a thing back then...
 

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On SC, are women generally looking to text through it or send pictures?

I just entered the dating scene after a long reprieve... and sc was not a thing back then...
yeah cause its a sneaky ASF platform, and women are sneaky ASF. its a match made in heaven for them.

always get a woman off her domain(phone) and into your domain(real life) as fast as you can. if she doesnt comply, goodbye.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I still think IG is cancer because its yet another platform to get people addicted to their devices, plus it contributes to the destruction of our attention spans by providing quick squirts of dopamine from the mindless scrolling and seeking of unseen content. By this definition, youtube, reddit, and all porn sites are cancer too (although I still use youtube reluctantly).
You do have a point about instagram. But I at least find it to be useful in a sense, and overall it's a positive experience as opposed to twitter, facebook and reddit which are all disgusting trollfests.
 

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Its easier to control the interactions with her on sc.
If you have her number she could be with her man and you call or txt and it gives her away. If she has you on sc she can delete the app, stop notifications etc. Its a form of control and shows the type they are. Game players.
 

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The less that technology is involved in your seduction and in your extended relationships, the better.

1. Avoid swipe apps for meeting women
2. Avoid social media for meeting women
3. In all phases of the relationship, limit texting to just setting in person meetings.
4. Do not add women on social media unless it is an exclusive, committed relationship. Even then, don't get sucked into social media.
wow good advice!
 

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Its easier to control the interactions with her on sc.
If you have her number she could be with her man and you call or txt and it gives her away. If she has you on sc she can delete the app, stop notifications etc. Its a form of control and shows the type they are. Game players.
It's also very easy to send messages to dozens of people at the same time on snapchat
 
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