She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
What "we" are you referring to? The vast majority of members on here, are great with women and won't have to go to these depths of desperation. Even most people who are struggling on here don't go that far as to pay for anything. Just a very small minority on here that might go that far.
Okay, then that sounds like a different issue outside of the intent of the thread and what @AmsterdamAssassin had posted prior to your post (ie which would have sounded like an extension of what he was saying in terms of normalizing paying for things...which is 100% social dynamics between men and women).
I don't see him as even having that good of a face - and he is moderately crippled. He has come to the realization that it is OVER for him. What I don't understand is paying that much cash for a cuddle - I mean I get cuddling as part of the complete professional package.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
The ones that are in the circle around the church aren't even European.
Don't forget OJ.
It could cost that much if it's an overnight session, however, the video is portraying like it's some short session. The going rate is more likeI don't see him as even having that good of a face - and he is moderately crippled. He has come to the realization that it is OVER for him. What I don't understand is paying that much cash for a cuddle - I mean I get cuddling as part of the complete professional package.
Hi Behimo,
So you are trying to say that men place a value on a cuddler being virginal - and thus like the idea of hiring a cuddler because they can be assured that she's not slutting it up with other men? What about rub & tug chicks?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Here's my theory. Black women are like any other women in that they are instinctually hypergamous. And since the average black man is considered on the bottom tier - i.e., the "incels" of races - due to racism, history, current economics, or whatever; thus, black women look at the average black man as any woman, even a fatty, would look at dating an incel - and for a lot them, they feel this rage at being stuck with men at such a tier, which is why black women have such bad attitudes, and are so proud to be "sassy", etc. This is also explains why a Normie like Bokanovsky gets so many likes from black girls on Hinge - and why a lot of times, black girls at the local Popeye's like to flirt with me.
Here's my theory. Black women are like any other women in that they are instinctually hypergamous. And since the average black man is considered on the bottom tier - i.e., the "incels" of races - due to racism, history, current economics, or whatever; thus, black women look at the average black man as any woman, even a fatty, would look at dating an incel - and for a lot them, they feel this rage at being stuck with men at such a tier, which is why black women have such bad attitudes, and are so proud to be "sassy", etc. This is also explains why a Normie like Bokanovsky gets so many likes from black girls on Hinge - and why a lot of times, black girls at the local Popeye's like to flirt with me.