"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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So this online dating site couple messages me...

gimmeyofonenumba

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I signed up for this dating site like a year ago(its standard free account) i forgot about it and all the pics i had on there and a few days ago I got an email from the dude saying his wife is really hot and wants to get with a young dude. He sends me pics of his wife, which appear legit, and she is smoking hot. He later tells me the chick has been real prude all her life and wants to get down with like giving one of us head and taking the other doggie style. I wasnt down for that at first, seems too dirty. She also just wants to make out and give head to a younger dude while in the movie theater or backseat of a car.

I've been answeing positivley and everything to see how far this would go, and it seems its really gonna happen. She wants to meet me at the mall first and talk, then judge how things go from there. So dudes...Should i do it? what would u do? Im afraid her husband may get pissed at what im doing and like shoot me or something.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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why don't you answer the message? lets see if he is serious about his wife wanting to bang you.
 

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Basically, they want to have a 3some, except with 2 guys.
 

picard

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I wouldn't mind banging his wife. I never pass up free sex with a chick.
 

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Dude, you want to, you know you do. Just be safe.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Something smells rotten in Denmark...

Basically, there are 3 possibilities as to WHY this guy contacted you.

1) He's telling you the truth and would be okay with his wife doing things with another guy in front of him...or thinks he would.

2) He's really bi-sexual and is looking for someone to try to get to do stuff with BOTH him and his wife.

3) They want to lure you into a vulnerable position to rob, rape, kill or maim you.

Whatever the hell he contacted you for...I'd think twice about doing it. Yes, there are lots of freaks out there, both sexually and otherwise. You have established the guy is a freak...but which kind remains to be seen.
 

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Ya wyldfire. I thought option 2 or 3 was what I feared could happen. Thats the thing that scares me, is that its confirmed this guy is already messed up, just dont know how bad. He has told me he is 100% strait, not like it means anything though. What would you do in my shoes dude? I've thought about bringing a knife or something in my shoe, but they both seem real easy going concerned about comfort level,wanting to break the ice first,etc..once again not like it means anything. I attached some pics he sent me:
 
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Wyldfire said:
Something smells rotten in Denmark...

Basically, there are 3 possibilities as to WHY this guy contacted you.

1) He's telling you the truth and would be okay with his wife doing things with another guy in front of him...or thinks he would.

2) He's really bi-sexual and is looking for someone to try to get to do stuff with BOTH him and his wife.

3) They want to lure you into a vulnerable position to rob, rape, kill or maim you.

Whatever the hell he contacted you for...I'd think twice about doing it. Yes, there are lots of freaks out there, both sexually and otherwise. You have established the guy is a freak...but which kind remains to be seen.
Or 4) it's a complete joke by some bored 15 year old. Sounds like something I might've done at that age lmao
 

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I would deffinatly do her but I dunno about another guy being in the room... That just sounds really weird. I dont think I could ever 'share' a girl with some other guy.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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oh well, there is always the first time for everything. As long as the sex with the woman is good, who cares about other dude in the room.
 

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As long as the sex with the woman is good, who cares about other dude in the room.

I used to feel that way. But now I think it's pretty gay to want to watch another dude do your wife. I can live without being some guy's gay fantasy. Judging from "cuckold" web sites, I think a lot of those guys are just homos in denial.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
As long as the sex with the woman is good, who cares about other dude in the room.

I used to feel that way. But now I think it's pretty gay to want to watch another dude do your wife. I can live without being some guy's gay fantasy. Judging from "cuckold" web sites, I think a lot of those guys are just homos in denial.
It's not really gay. I mean the majority of porn is with guys fvcking women and there's nothing gay about that (assuming you don't focus your attention on the man...).

Probably what this guy enjoys about watching another guy fvck his wife is how taboo it is. It's just like any sort of kinky thing in a way. He's enjoys the jealous emotions he gets from watching his wife cheat. He enjoys it because it's so wrong. At least I think that's what he's feeling; it sure as hell is nothing I'd ever do with my future wife or a GF.
 
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