Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

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so this new chick came on wednesday....

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so i go to the Un school in ny, and some new girl transferred in in the middle of the week (from connecticut, dont ask me why...). she's cute, like a 8/10. so we met and started flirtin that day... chilled after school. nxt day, find out shes in my bio class. we flirt all of then too, she's writing dirty illicit things in my bio book, i keep up with my game, everything's according to plan.

then she pulls a shocker on me. she goes back to connecticut every weekend until her parents sell their place there. also, her old school there is having their homecoming like this or nxt weekend, i dont remember which. my friend jokingly asked if he could go, and she said u could only go if u were a member of the school or if u were invited by someone. she said shes invited by someone.

also, that gay **** facebook relationship status thing says married to ______. idk if thats a joke or not, cause wtf does a 15 year old mean by married? i havent asked her if shes got a bf, cause i dont really care, she keeps flirting with me anyway. my school dance is nxt friday, im gonna see if i can get her to go to taht and then ill sort thsi whole thing out. i just want someones opinion on how i should go about doin this, seeing as how i'll be nowhere near her during weekends? it really hampers my usual way of doin things, calling her up, being funny, arranging action type meeting (salsa dancing or ice skating :D), and takin it from tehre.
 

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War Against Betaism

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Things happen and there is nothing you could do about it, however you have been doing a good job so far from what you put. About the whole relationship status thing, it sounds like puppy luv to me. Kind of annoys me that option is open to people that aren't even 18 yet, like a week ago my 12 year old cousin changes his relationship status to married, couple days after single. They just get so easily infatuated. Well anyways, if she keeps on flirting with you, like my sig says, "Mind over matter...if she don't mind, it don't matter!" Just treat the situation like usual.
 

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Cassanova_Child said:
so i go to the Un school in ny, and some new girl transferred in in the middle of the week (from connecticut, dont ask me why...). she's cute, like a 8/10. so we met and started flirtin that day... chilled after school. nxt day, find out shes in my bio class. we flirt all of then too, she's writing dirty illicit things in my bio book, i keep up with my game, everything's according to plan.

then she pulls a shocker on me. she goes back to connecticut every weekend until her parents sell their place there. also, her old school there is having their homecoming like this or nxt weekend, i dont remember which. my friend jokingly asked if he could go, and she said u could only go if u were a member of the school or if u were invited by someone. she said shes invited by someone.

also, that gay **** facebook relationship status thing says married to ______. idk if thats a joke or not, cause wtf does a 15 year old mean by married? i havent asked her if shes got a bf, cause i dont really care, she keeps flirting with me anyway. my school dance is nxt friday, im gonna see if i can get her to go to taht and then ill sort thsi whole thing out. i just want someones opinion on how i should go about doin this, seeing as how i'll be nowhere near her during weekends? it really hampers my usual way of doin things, calling her up, being funny, arranging action type meeting (salsa dancing or ice skating :D), and takin it from tehre.
You care too much already.
 

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http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=95581

after reading this, i realized taht you're correct Lust. I have 4 main problems that ive identified so far with all of this, and 1 of them is getting too much into one girl too fast, and forgetting about everything else. i'm trying to fix that now, practicing some cold approaches, and splitting atention between different ppl.

as for War Against Betaism, i love your whole philosophy and thought processs. i'm gonna keep on doing what im doing, and if it works it works, if not.....

NEXT!
 
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