"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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So this is my Dilemma

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So I've been seeing this girl for about 3 weeks now, drinks on patios, walks in the park, dinner, etc..... We have great conversations and in those conversations she keeps on mentioning that she gets moody, quiet, *****y for no reason and not to take it personal and thats how she is....

Ok, fair enough, but I think our last time together I got that moody vibe from her and I thought "who cares I wont take it personal" but for some strange reason its been on my mind and I dont really know if it's worth having a girl treating me like this- quiet, not being responsive blah blah blah..FUK....i hate that ****... She says shes tired, and thats how she is after a long day at work.

Don't get me wrong I know women get moody and all that -its a given, but theres something about her that makes me wanna persue this. I dont think this is very AFC of me and im not experiencing 'oneitis' its just that i know what i want and she has all the qualities except for that huge one. Now, with that said I think im going to give it one more date and see how it goes if I still feel the same then NEXT. BUT, half of me is saying "this is how women are except it and love it and get used to it........

What is a fella to do???
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Well I think im not going to give up just yet..........
 
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Well, I'm not sure what the problem is with you but I can tell you this.....

Whenever a women says something like that, it's usually a sh!t test.

She's messed up and doesn't want to accept responsability for her attitude problem... By telling/warning you, she's free to act as she pleases and expects you to just accept it because you were warned.

fvck that

Tell her that she can have her mood swings all she wants, but just don't expect you to hang around and put up with it.... Don't just say this..... seriously, when she gets b*tchy, drop her off at her place and tell her to call you when she's in a better mood.

You gotta put them in their place, from time to time...... it might seem nasty from the outside, but it isn't. Your voicing yourself as the controller of this relationship in so many words and most women will love you for doing so.
 
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