So this is my Dilemma

[Me_Myself_n_I]

So I've been seeing this girl for about 3 weeks now, drinks on patios, walks in the park, dinner, etc..... We have great conversations and in those conversations she keeps on mentioning that she gets moody, quiet, *****y for no reason and not to take it personal and thats how she is....

Ok, fair enough, but I think our last time together I got that moody vibe from her and I thought "who cares I wont take it personal" but for some strange reason its been on my mind and I dont really know if it's worth having a girl treating me like this- quiet, not being responsive blah blah blah..FUK....i hate that ****... She says shes tired, and thats how she is after a long day at work.

Don't get me wrong I know women get moody and all that -its a given, but theres something about her that makes me wanna persue this. I dont think this is very AFC of me and im not experiencing 'oneitis' its just that i know what i want and she has all the qualities except for that huge one. Now, with that said I think im going to give it one more date and see how it goes if I still feel the same then NEXT. BUT, half of me is saying "this is how women are except it and love it and get used to it........

What is a fella to do???

 

[Me_Myself_n_I]

Well I think im not going to give up just yet..........

 

[The Bad Ass Canadian]

Well, I'm not sure what the problem is with you but I can tell you this.....

Whenever a women says something like that, it's usually a sh!t test.

She's messed up and doesn't want to accept responsability for her attitude problem... By telling/warning you, she's free to act as she pleases and expects you to just accept it because you were warned.

fvck that

Tell her that she can have her mood swings all she wants, but just don't expect you to hang around and put up with it.... Don't just say this..... seriously, when she gets b*tchy, drop her off at her place and tell her to call you when she's in a better mood.

You gotta put them in their place, from time to time...... it might seem nasty from the outside, but it isn't. Your voicing yourself as the controller of this relationship in so many words and most women will love you for doing so.