so there is this girl in my college class,keep in mind I just turned 30... lil bit of a long read but worth it,I think at least...
I take grad level bio's,etc... however my math backround is weak and they made me take a calc2(which is not basic but a few up so anyway...)
been glancing back and forth for a couple weeks,smiles,etc...
started saying hello a few days ago and slowly building up to more convo....
so we sit next to each other throw some more smiles back and forth during class,etc...whisper a word here and there as professor is talking.....
problem is I cannot get more then a 20 sec convo going,she is talking to a friend outside every class till professor walks in and leaves right after...
there was a fire drill too and I was last one out and she was by door what almost looked like she was waiting for me so she flashed me a big smile and I did back..while outside she tried striking up some small talk...
~normally I would say she is closing herself off,but she could smile once and not look in my direction..... etc etc... even does the hair flip once and a while...
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today I finally said forget this,and basically after class just said "hey have a minute?" she said sure........
I said,you don't have class? she said no. I said ok so how are you with the material? she said very well,I said would you like to get together and study for everything,kind of review...since the professor did not do much....
she said "sure,when?" she told me her schedule and we pretty much set something up for friday since we both have classes rest of today and neither one of us has classes on monday....
so we are walking out and just kind of talking... she is telling me about this other class she has later and im telling her about a class I had earlier..as we are walking out I told her about a similar class I had in undergrad...*now keep in mind im not really seeing big IOI's here..(hair flips,light touching,etc...) def a lot of eye contact,thats about it...
~so then she goes,"wait,how old are you?" im like how old do I look? she thought I was 22,shes like are you in 20's or 30's..etc? I said I just turned 30... no real reaction,keep talking as we are walking out of bldg....
***soo then I asked how old she is,thinking 19-23 .............
she said " im 17" lol my jaw dropped basically,one because she is taking calc 2 basically out of hs and two bc im like hmmmmm that kind of changes things lol....
cliffs::: even if she was older,she didn't seem AS interested as I thought,however she could have just said she is busy or said she had to run after class,etc etc...
she then asked for my #....so I said oh great she must like me somewhat, OR im thinking maybe she wants mine so she just does not call???
by then I was nervous as all heck,so I said just email me on the school website lol
*** email her a few days ago,say hey what's up when are you free monday,she gets back within an hr saying Hi how are you? tells me when she is free and when she is not....
email back and forth a couple times to get where exactly on campus and what time... yesterday afternoon says " sounds good! "
email later on at night(but did not read till I was on campus today) saying...
" hey something came up last minute and I can't make it. im sorry. try emailing one of the other guys from class to meet up maybe"
what the heck lol... I have heard it all about the age thing etc... first off I would not take her out for coffee till she was 18 even though 17 is legal here.. but the mixed signals aside( or at least what seemed to me mixed)
pretty ticked I came here early to meet now nothing to do for another hr lol
I take grad level bio's,etc... however my math backround is weak and they made me take a calc2(which is not basic but a few up so anyway...)
been glancing back and forth for a couple weeks,smiles,etc...
started saying hello a few days ago and slowly building up to more convo....
so we sit next to each other throw some more smiles back and forth during class,etc...whisper a word here and there as professor is talking.....
problem is I cannot get more then a 20 sec convo going,she is talking to a friend outside every class till professor walks in and leaves right after...
there was a fire drill too and I was last one out and she was by door what almost looked like she was waiting for me so she flashed me a big smile and I did back..while outside she tried striking up some small talk...
~normally I would say she is closing herself off,but she could smile once and not look in my direction..... etc etc... even does the hair flip once and a while...
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
today I finally said forget this,and basically after class just said "hey have a minute?" she said sure........
I said,you don't have class? she said no. I said ok so how are you with the material? she said very well,I said would you like to get together and study for everything,kind of review...since the professor did not do much....
she said "sure,when?" she told me her schedule and we pretty much set something up for friday since we both have classes rest of today and neither one of us has classes on monday....
so we are walking out and just kind of talking... she is telling me about this other class she has later and im telling her about a class I had earlier..as we are walking out I told her about a similar class I had in undergrad...*now keep in mind im not really seeing big IOI's here..(hair flips,light touching,etc...) def a lot of eye contact,thats about it...
~so then she goes,"wait,how old are you?" im like how old do I look? she thought I was 22,shes like are you in 20's or 30's..etc? I said I just turned 30... no real reaction,keep talking as we are walking out of bldg....
***soo then I asked how old she is,thinking 19-23 .............
she said " im 17" lol my jaw dropped basically,one because she is taking calc 2 basically out of hs and two bc im like hmmmmm that kind of changes things lol....
cliffs::: even if she was older,she didn't seem AS interested as I thought,however she could have just said she is busy or said she had to run after class,etc etc...
she then asked for my #....so I said oh great she must like me somewhat, OR im thinking maybe she wants mine so she just does not call???
by then I was nervous as all heck,so I said just email me on the school website lol
*** email her a few days ago,say hey what's up when are you free monday,she gets back within an hr saying Hi how are you? tells me when she is free and when she is not....
email back and forth a couple times to get where exactly on campus and what time... yesterday afternoon says " sounds good! "
email later on at night(but did not read till I was on campus today) saying...
" hey something came up last minute and I can't make it. im sorry. try emailing one of the other guys from class to meet up maybe"
what the heck lol... I have heard it all about the age thing etc... first off I would not take her out for coffee till she was 18 even though 17 is legal here.. but the mixed signals aside( or at least what seemed to me mixed)
pretty ticked I came here early to meet now nothing to do for another hr lol