"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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So this girls CRAZY about me

stoner1129

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I guess.

So anyways I went to waterworld with my my friends and and their youth group, and one of my friends gf brought some of her friends, and we'll call one her friends D.

So when we first meet up with them I guess she likes my two other friends that were there with me, I didn't really care, it just meant if I wanted to do anything I would have to work harder so i thought it was better for me.

So after lunch we go on these tube rides and it's me, D, and one of my firends in the tube. She sat by my friend, opposite from me. Went on another tube and the exact same thing happened, but with my other friend.

This early I wasn't chasing her or anything, I really couldn't care less.

So we split up into two groups and had some fun and then we found her at the big wave pool, we went to a smaller wave pool and had fun in there.

I figured why not and i dunked her a couple times, she kept tryin to dunk me but couldn't.

D and my friends gf start talking and then it finds out that she really likes me. My friends gf even told me that if I asked her out right now that she would probably say yes, and they think I should so that the four of us could hang out.

Well anyways I'm gonna hangout with them today, here in a little actually, but I don't know, I think it's just a little weird.

There's more to the story that i'll try to put in later but they shoudl be here any minute.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Cassanova_Child

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u have a gf rite now? theres no reason NOT to unless you do..... or if you feel wierd, than dont do it.
 

Triple T

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Just keep doing what you were doing.
Get her interest level even HIGHER.

Push/pull, she'll go crazy all over you.

You can't really screw anything up because she seems to really like you.
Unless you become nervous and become an AFC.
 

stoner1129

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Lol so anyways here you guys go.

So my friend and the girls pick me up yesterday, me and D are in the back and it's kinda ackward because we were'nt talking, I have my talking moments that just wasn't one of them.

So we get to my friends house and chill downstairs watchin tv, my friend and his girl are cuddlin and he kinda gives me a look to put my arm around her, I stole this from someone on here, can't really remember, but anyways I looked at her and said "watch this", then i yawned and put my are around here, lol it was so stupid but funny.

After a while of laying there we go over to the church because there's a big inflatable slide there and we mess around on it, it was awesome.

So my friend and his girl are kissing and stuff and we're just laying there, someone throws up some twizzlers and my friend and his girl tell us to tie it in a knot and eat it, obviously to get us to kiss, well it worked.

We go back to the house chill more, me and her make out a couple times.

Then we go and help out with some youth group thing, then chill more, then go the movies.

After the movies I asked her out, said yeah. Get taken home and that's that.

Today after my first football practice, my friend picks me up and we go his house, the girls slept there.

We cuddle, makeout, and watch stuff.

Leave for a little and then go back.

Layed on the couch for a while, so I grabbed a blanket and haha you know.
 
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