"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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So this girls CRAZY about me

stoner1129

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I guess.

So anyways I went to waterworld with my my friends and and their youth group, and one of my friends gf brought some of her friends, and we'll call one her friends D.

So when we first meet up with them I guess she likes my two other friends that were there with me, I didn't really care, it just meant if I wanted to do anything I would have to work harder so i thought it was better for me.

So after lunch we go on these tube rides and it's me, D, and one of my firends in the tube. She sat by my friend, opposite from me. Went on another tube and the exact same thing happened, but with my other friend.

This early I wasn't chasing her or anything, I really couldn't care less.

So we split up into two groups and had some fun and then we found her at the big wave pool, we went to a smaller wave pool and had fun in there.

I figured why not and i dunked her a couple times, she kept tryin to dunk me but couldn't.

D and my friends gf start talking and then it finds out that she really likes me. My friends gf even told me that if I asked her out right now that she would probably say yes, and they think I should so that the four of us could hang out.

Well anyways I'm gonna hangout with them today, here in a little actually, but I don't know, I think it's just a little weird.

There's more to the story that i'll try to put in later but they shoudl be here any minute.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Cassanova_Child

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u have a gf rite now? theres no reason NOT to unless you do..... or if you feel wierd, than dont do it.
 

Triple T

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Just keep doing what you were doing.
Get her interest level even HIGHER.

Push/pull, she'll go crazy all over you.

You can't really screw anything up because she seems to really like you.
Unless you become nervous and become an AFC.
 

stoner1129

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Lol so anyways here you guys go.

So my friend and the girls pick me up yesterday, me and D are in the back and it's kinda ackward because we were'nt talking, I have my talking moments that just wasn't one of them.

So we get to my friends house and chill downstairs watchin tv, my friend and his girl are cuddlin and he kinda gives me a look to put my arm around her, I stole this from someone on here, can't really remember, but anyways I looked at her and said "watch this", then i yawned and put my are around here, lol it was so stupid but funny.

After a while of laying there we go over to the church because there's a big inflatable slide there and we mess around on it, it was awesome.

So my friend and his girl are kissing and stuff and we're just laying there, someone throws up some twizzlers and my friend and his girl tell us to tie it in a knot and eat it, obviously to get us to kiss, well it worked.

We go back to the house chill more, me and her make out a couple times.

Then we go and help out with some youth group thing, then chill more, then go the movies.

After the movies I asked her out, said yeah. Get taken home and that's that.

Today after my first football practice, my friend picks me up and we go his house, the girls slept there.

We cuddle, makeout, and watch stuff.

Leave for a little and then go back.

Layed on the couch for a while, so I grabbed a blanket and haha you know.
 
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