"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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So this girl tried playing head games, and I put her straight.

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This week I met this girl, we went out, made out, and so on, but that's it.

Anyway, I call her with the intention of making a plan to get together. As I felt she was trying to play some head games with me (claiming she's busy all weekend, etc, etc.), I told her quite frankly that I don't deal with girls' games, and that I will leave immediately if she continue.

I think she got the message.

In your experience, when a girl attempts head games, how do you deal with it?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I think i know why the girl was very jealous and asking a lot of questions when you went to Vegas
 
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sorry about that..somehow this post went into the wrong thread..i had them both open..please disregaurd
 
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WORKEROUTER said:
This week I met this girl, we went out, made out, and so on, but that's it.

Anyway, I call her with the intention of making a plan to get together. As I felt she was trying to play some head games with me (claiming she's busy all weekend, etc, etc.), I told her quite frankly that I don't deal with girls' games, and that I will leave immediately if she continue.

I think she got the message.

In your experience, when a girl attempts head games, how do you deal with it?
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Just like that. Tell them staright that you don't play that way and either they cut it out, or you walk. simple.
 
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