"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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so... this girl pulls this **** on me

tdotseoul

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She says, in a testing way, "well you are going to forget about me, you will have another girl by then"

When I asked her if we are going to meet next month (both of us have busy schedules)

What do i say to that? Lol
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Common sh1t test. Pair is right...A&A, Redirect, etc

"I think you mean another 10" + smirk
 

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Her: "Oh, so you're going out with your boys this weekend, you guys going to have sex with half of 'Insert City'?"

Me: "Well, considering half of the population is women, that could be possible but, you know we have do have standards so half is pushing it, I'd say 20% at best."
 

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Sarcasm and humor. Jokingly say"yeah most probably, but just in case I hope we meet next month"
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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tdotseoul said:
She says, in a testing way, "well you are going to forget about me, you will have another girl by then"

When I asked her if we are going to meet next month (both of us have busy schedules)

What do i say to that? Lol
she is letting you know that she is into other men and wants you to move on..
 

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DonGorgon said:
she is letting you know that she is into other men and wants you to move on..
Thats funny because we had sex for the first time an hout after she said this lol
 

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tdotseoul said:
Thats funny because we had sex for the first time an hout after she said this lol
That's freaking awesome because you asked for a meeting next month! From trying to meet her one month from now to having sex within the hour, incredible!

We'd be keen to how you pulled this off.
 
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