Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
she is letting you know that she is into other men and wants you to move on..tdotseoul said:She says, in a testing way, "well you are going to forget about me, you will have another girl by then"
When I asked her if we are going to meet next month (both of us have busy schedules)
What do i say to that? Lol
Thats funny because we had sex for the first time an hout after she said this lolDonGorgon said:she is letting you know that she is into other men and wants you to move on..
That's freaking awesome because you asked for a meeting next month! From trying to meet her one month from now to having sex within the hour, incredible!tdotseoul said:Thats funny because we had sex for the first time an hout after she said this lol