So this girl I haven't seen in awhile..

[trans_am17]

Today this girl I used to talk to came in at my work. I haven't seen her in about 4months(we just stopped talking) well today she asked me what happen to my cell phone(I ran out of minutes) She said she tried calling me(not sure when -its been 4 months since I've talked to her). Since my phone is prepaid I cant doanything with it until I get another card which I havn't gotten around to. Should I try giving her a call and see if she wants to do something?

 

[trans_am17]

Would it be alright to just call her up?

 

[reyalp]

man, you might have missed a late-night booty call!

get some minutes, broseph.
and call her up, plan something, get off the phone asap. it's costing you per minute, you gotta be fast!


avoid using "what are you doing?" in the first bit because this is an open question.
i like "are you busy?" because it tapers off really quick. then i move into the appointment. then i make up some excuse for needing to run, and get off the phone.

also, take my advice with this
. <---- a grain of salt

have fun

 

[JayUK]

yeh man, take her somewher fun! theme pArk or somethin!

 

[trans_am17]

so you guys don't think it'd be kinda random or werid for me to call her after so long w/o any contact? its a little cold for the theme park though.

 

[reyalp]

she tried calling you, wasn't that random?

 

[trans_am17]

does it sound like she's still interested?

 

[trans_am17]

I go to a different school than this girl but I gave a friend of mine whom I also work with my home number to give to this girl. I've decided that I don't really care if she calls or what. Either way it goes I plan on seeing plenty of other HB's. Input welcome on this.

 

[reyalp]

yeah don't get hung up on just her. play it if you can, move on if you can't.

you've got the right mindset, young grasshopper.

 

[trans_am17]

a little update- my friend aaid he told her about me giving her my home number but he forgot the number and he said she told him to get it for her. So I guess things are good and she's definitely interested?-what do you guys think?

 

[trans_am17]

?

 

[Ace of Flames]

the girl called u. girls rarely call guys if they dont like them. especially out of the blue like that. she must've been thinking about u since u hadnt been talking in months. its looking good from here man.

 

[trans_am17]

thanks-oh and I have minutes now

 

[trans_am17]

I don't think my friend ever gave her my number (he's been skipping a lot) Would it be ok for me to just call her up? What should I say since its been like 4 months since we've talked? I'd like to get things back to how they were(we were completly comfortable talking to each other.

 

[trans_am17]

?

 

[trans_am17]

I called her today and she really didn't sound interested, we only talked for like a 2-3 min and then she said she had to go to her mom's house and told me I could call her back when I got off work. I said or you could call me back. So if she's interested she'll call right? If she doesn't call she's definitely not into me?