"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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So this girl from work texted me without me giving her my mumber

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is it just me or would you guys also feel weird seeing each other at work?

She texted me yesterday,but i havent had much time to set anything up with her.. not till next week.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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No I would not feel weird. I'd make fun of her for hiring private investigators and if she liked me all she had to do was tell me.
 
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verysuave said:
is it just me or would you guys also feel weird seeing each other at work?

She texted me yesterday,but i havent had much time to set anything up with her.. not till next week.
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i hardly see pple that are the same floor as me.. im just too busy, i normaly see only people from my department.. so yeah i wouldnt have a problem meeting her once in a while.. especially during lunch..

But beware, having relationships at work. is kinda like putting a lo-jack device (tracking) on yourself... so you have to play it very smooth if you have another girl to juggle with, but if shes the only one, then you have no problems... :crackup: it was easy for her to get your number... its very easy for her to know your whereabouts... just a question though.. whats her hotness rating??
 
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That's awesome, and I wouldn't feel weird. She had to go through the effort of finding your number somewhere, that's a great start.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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