"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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So, this girl from work likes me

verysuave

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She's 18 and in Highschool... she was dating someone before and now she's single. It's been 4 days now since I have gotten her number. On day 2, I called her.. but she didn't pick up. Couple minutes later she calls back.. but by the time I picked up, she had already hanged up.

Called her the day after Valentines Day around 11:30 am she picks up but I couldn't really hear what she was saying because of the background noise and static. I hanged up and just texted her

"I couldn't hear you. Ill call you some other time"

and I get a reply back "all rigGht"

SOOOOO

What is the minimum number of days before she goes cold on me? 1 week? 2 weeks? I've been busy so I haven't had time to talk to her on the phone. But I really made an effort to call her just so she would get the feeling that I am interested. I really should plan something quick for next weekend yes?

Thanks !
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I agree. Figure out the situation. Straight up ask her out. If she says no, then write it off. No reason to *****foot around. Not sure about her hangup, though. She sounds a bit immature. Use that to your advantage if you are older. Make her think that you think she's acting like an immature loser. She'll be sensitive to that line of criticism and might try to prove you wrong.
 

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Confront her like "To Catch a Predator" and then "You don't know me, you don't wear my chains!!! I'm going back to Boston bro!!"
 
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