"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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So, this girl from work likes me

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She's 18 and in Highschool... she was dating someone before and now she's single. It's been 4 days now since I have gotten her number. On day 2, I called her.. but she didn't pick up. Couple minutes later she calls back.. but by the time I picked up, she had already hanged up.

Called her the day after Valentines Day around 11:30 am she picks up but I couldn't really hear what she was saying because of the background noise and static. I hanged up and just texted her

"I couldn't hear you. Ill call you some other time"

and I get a reply back "all rigGht"

SOOOOO

What is the minimum number of days before she goes cold on me? 1 week? 2 weeks? I've been busy so I haven't had time to talk to her on the phone. But I really made an effort to call her just so she would get the feeling that I am interested. I really should plan something quick for next weekend yes?

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I agree. Figure out the situation. Straight up ask her out. If she says no, then write it off. No reason to *****foot around. Not sure about her hangup, though. She sounds a bit immature. Use that to your advantage if you are older. Make her think that you think she's acting like an immature loser. She'll be sensitive to that line of criticism and might try to prove you wrong.
 
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Confront her like "To Catch a Predator" and then "You don't know me, you don't wear my chains!!! I'm going back to Boston bro!!"
 
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