So This Girl Did a Complete 360 and Lost Interest in Me Or She Going Through. . .

[Dante420]

. . .a hard time?

I mean she was completely interested. We hung the first day and ****ed.

The second day we hung out we ****ed again, she loved it. The next morning we ****ed again.

So this was all last Saturday. It is now Friday and for a good part of this week she didn't contact me like she did, she attended a funeral on Monday and found out another one of her close friends died to. So she's all the way up in her hometown and she just returned my texts from two days ago today and said she didn't wanna bother with her phone and she wants to move.


So no interest from her anymore? This just a rough time, she didn't respond to the text message I sent her after that.

She's 19 and I'm 17 and I really don't wanna go back to girls my own age, I experienced a girl with sexual skill and I liked it

 

[AlexTheGreat]

Dude are you ****ing kidding me?? She was at a funeral, and closely afterwards she found out that another close friend just died. Let her mourn mate, I think having sex is the last thing on her mind right now... plus you don't wanna be her emotional tampon anyways.

Let her mourn. If you're into her, give her a shoulder of support (but be advised that it will NOT increase her attraction towards you); otherwise, let her know that you're there for her and let her come to you.

PS: put yourself in her shoes: if you went to a funeral and later found out another friend died, would you honestly feel like having sex? Give her time.

Oh yeah, and spin some plates.

 

[1337]

alex is right trust me if it happened to you lord forbid you wouldnt be able to even have an erection.

 

[Atom Smasher]

I feel sorry for you younger guys. Girls generally had their heads up their a$$es when I was that age, and now things are even worse. Like the other guys said, she is totally distracted right now, so it's time for you to move on, while still leaving the door open for the future with her.

Since she's dealing with life & death issues, along with the religious connotations, she may also be dealing with feelings of guilt for having s*x with you.

Now, lets address your math. She did a 180, not a 360. A 360 is a complete circle.

 

[omega05]

I feel sorry for you younger guys. Girls generally had their heads up their a$$es when I was that age, and now things are even worse. Like the other guys said, she is totally distracted right now, so it's time for you to move on, while still leaving the door open for the future with her.

Since she's dealing with life & death issues, along with the religious connotations, she may also be dealing with feelings of guilt for having s*x with you.

Now, lets address your math. She did a 180, not a 360. A 360 is a complete circle.

what i was gonna say

 

[Dante420]

Thanks for the Geometry lesson. However I don't need the spinning plates, keep her off my mind lesson.

Alright so we talked a lil bit more but still it's not like before. Before she texted me as she was bored at work, texted me throughout the day at random points. I responded to her text last night and when I woke up I found her response 3 hours later she says she just woke up after falling asleep.

I responded in the morning, to which I got no response all day.

This is what I want, so this is the situation that matters to me at the moment. I want to be with this girl, she represents everything I want. We share a similar lifestyle, she's older and skilled enough in bed to make me lose interest in anything I experienced in the past. . . . . . .

So at this point now, what do I do? A text she never responded to, I can wait some time and see if she texts me eventually but even if she does it's clear it's not the same as before. So what's the game plan?. just sit and wait? Cause unless I see a change from her I'm thinking of informing her in overly dramatic fashion that she's been dropped, despite my excitement about her.

And yeah the sex was great, the second time was better then the first to. Read my post history though, this isn't the only girl I ever met but she's the only one that I wanted to be committed to since my last relationship. . .I need some experienced opinions.