"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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So this broad is basically afraid of sex now...

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long story short, she's not what she used to be...we were phuck buddies a year ago but now, shes changed...i've even went as far as asking her to be my girlfriend so i could fornicate her more so thats not the problem...shes really self conscious now...she goes on and on about how fat she is and about how her but makes her depressed because she wants a bigger one

theres really nothing wrong with this girl...she has nice perky breasts, thick thighs, and a medium sized butt with a small stomach pudge...nothing crazy though...it doesnt hang over her belt or anything

she spent the night with me the other day and i asked her if she wanted a massage...she said what kind and i went on youtube and typed it in to show her...after seeing the word sensual she freaked and said, "no! i dont want that, just rub my feet"..she doesnt want to do ANYTHING sexual

before anyone asks, the way i treat this chick isn any different from the way i've treated her 2 years ago when we first met...im still a semi assh0le and take time to tease her about random things every now and then just to mess around...shes 20 now

what the hell should i do
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Its pretty obvious what you should do. Do you really need us to tell you to move on and find a girl who WILL be sexual?
 
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It sounds like she has lost interest and is less attracted to you than she used to be, to be honest. Remember, if you make a girl's pvssy wet she would be all over your d!ck. She's not afraid of sex, she's just not turned on like she used to be.

If you'd never slept with her before or she was a virgin then it might be a different matter, but that's not the case so I would say it's low interest.

Going from fvck buddy to girlfriend was probably a mistake as you gave her a lot of power in that move.

Can't be sure if it's all lost yet though. I would back WAY off and see if she comes to you, make her chase you and beg for your d!ck. If she doesn't - NEXT.

In the meantime get more options and keep busy.
 
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