"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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So this broad is basically afraid of sex now...

MyTeamSupreme

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long story short, she's not what she used to be...we were phuck buddies a year ago but now, shes changed...i've even went as far as asking her to be my girlfriend so i could fornicate her more so thats not the problem...shes really self conscious now...she goes on and on about how fat she is and about how her but makes her depressed because she wants a bigger one

theres really nothing wrong with this girl...she has nice perky breasts, thick thighs, and a medium sized butt with a small stomach pudge...nothing crazy though...it doesnt hang over her belt or anything

she spent the night with me the other day and i asked her if she wanted a massage...she said what kind and i went on youtube and typed it in to show her...after seeing the word sensual she freaked and said, "no! i dont want that, just rub my feet"..she doesnt want to do ANYTHING sexual

before anyone asks, the way i treat this chick isn any different from the way i've treated her 2 years ago when we first met...im still a semi assh0le and take time to tease her about random things every now and then just to mess around...shes 20 now

what the hell should i do
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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horaholic

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Its pretty obvious what you should do. Do you really need us to tell you to move on and find a girl who WILL be sexual?
 

starplayer

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It sounds like she has lost interest and is less attracted to you than she used to be, to be honest. Remember, if you make a girl's pvssy wet she would be all over your d!ck. She's not afraid of sex, she's just not turned on like she used to be.

If you'd never slept with her before or she was a virgin then it might be a different matter, but that's not the case so I would say it's low interest.

Going from fvck buddy to girlfriend was probably a mistake as you gave her a lot of power in that move.

Can't be sure if it's all lost yet though. I would back WAY off and see if she comes to you, make her chase you and beg for your d!ck. If she doesn't - NEXT.

In the meantime get more options and keep busy.
 
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