"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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That i cold approached and she got away from me and i didn't get her number.. i see her a couple times around my way.. i say her she says hi and smiles .. She shows alot of IOI.. Now i found her myspace.. but i dont want to add her and seem to stalkish and i never ask girls out online.. I guess im too old school.. what do you guys suggest i do? add her myspace?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Next time you see her, guess what I'm going to tell you to do?
-myspace, your choice, don't talk to her though yet
 

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NotaNewbie,

I would recommend not using myspace because it is a lot of wasted conversation time that you could do physically and actually see her -physical- reactions to your convo.

Next, how did she get away from you? Did she hurry off? Details such as this help with analysis from the sidelines. My basic guess is she is not really interested if she "got away" from you. Best advice with what I have is, next time you get near her just do something that will catch her off guard, depending on the type of girl I have used in the past a wink, various shrugs, nods, a simple smile, "its you" kind of pointing, and the "Hey, what is up?" to a friend behind her (this messes with girls minds and requires a very quick wingman!). Usually I keep on walking like that is all I had to say, if she tries to stop you that means you are in, if not just forget about her and keep on rocking. Sometimes though they may come up and talk to you in curiosity a day or so later, just play it DJ like and you've got her around your pinky. (that is if you have not found something better by then! )

Take it easy and I hope this has helped.
 

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That i cold approached and she got away from me and i didn't get her number..

That's not a good start.

She says hi and smiles to be 'nice', don't look into it to much.

She shows allot of IOI? Like what? If she is in fact showing you 'interest', why haven't you made your move?

Don't hide behind myspace, you need to approach and do your thing.
 

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The first time i approached her She initiated kino with me and we fluffed a bit.. Then there was this awkward silence.. and i was busy with something at the moment too (forgot what it was i had to do something) so i walked away.. and we haven't spoked.. then a week later i saw her at the subway station.. i was getting off and she was getting on i saw i said hi she smiled and said "I see you everywhere i go" I said "Maybe because you're stalking me" with a grin she had to get on the subway and i left..
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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