"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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So theres this girl

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At school, we get along great, talk blah blah blah, she recently broke up with her bf a couple months ago. She pretty hot, all the guys at school (engineering school) wanna bang her so she gets alotta attention from guys. We joke around a lot and seems to me like flirting, tickling, touching and stuff like that. She even asks me out to the club with her friends ( i didnt go because of other issues).

We eat lunch 3 times a week and have great conversation and i instantly think she's into me and i may have a chance. This goes on for about 3-4 weeks. Then she gets asked out by a couple of guys, movie, dinner **** like that. And she asks me "why do they wanna take me out, maybe they're just friendly" I replied " Are you serious? they're asking you out on a date, not to be friendly. Go out with them". In the end she denied them all.

I think she knew it was a date thing, but wanted to bug me about it and look "in demand". Ever since then i've gave her the cold shoulder and less attention because i figured i was in the friends zone. I hate that ****.

What do i do next? We still say hey to each other, but i keep it less friendly now and didnt eat with her the entire week. She said she was mad i didnt invite her to lunch during the week, i said "oh i forgot to call you" or some bull****.

Anyone want to weigh in on this.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DonGorgon said:
She is doing what most women do when they have 50 dudes after them ... soaking up the attention while fing some dude none of you know about.
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lol, this made me laugh simply because its so true....
 
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Invite her over to your place to watch a movie....her reaction will tell you all you need to know.......problem solved!!LOL...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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So what?Say something like "You know what its funny how these guys are getting rejected by you left and right.I know that you would never pass up an opportunity to go out with me thats for sure!".Then keep gaming on her like that cause if she likes you she wont be hesitant to answer that.Then you can set up your date perfectly.
 
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