"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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So then theres this girl..

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Im pretty sure this girl likes me, we used to be like best friends but made some mistakes and i ruined it but now since I stopped its changed and well at lunch she always sits by me in our table (we only stay there cause we are not aloud to leave the place) and she definetly doesn't mind when i get near her as in are arms touch and legs and she hug me and plays with my hair...and whenever something about sex comes up as an exapmle i'm going somewere with them as in like a place shes like yay that means i get to sleep in the same bed as you Dan!! And other stuff liek that you get it. I always catch her gazing at me from a distance but not when we are close uper. But the thing is i think she might be kind of a shank..she is a very overly huggy person to everyone which doestnt mean much but also shes kind of an attention ***** which are useualy shanks...i realy like her shes lights up my day and being around her realy makes my day sometimes.. but i have no idea if i should pursue this.....is she a shank...any of these good signs for me....?


And another thing, i am putting in literaly 0 effort, i never say hi at all she always does first if not i will walk past her like she doesnt even exist.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If she's an attention wh0re, stay away from her.

If you decided you want to pursue per, though, games some other chicks first. Sounds like you have oneitis and you'll probably mess it up if you like her too much, so just broaden your horizons for awhile. Do this over the next few days. When Monday rolls around, start getting some heavy kino going on with her at lunch if you can and make eye contact. Pay attention to her body language and step back if it's closed. If she's using more open body language, tell her you guys are hanging out soon. When you do, bring in the kino and if it's going good go in for the kiss. Don't ask for it, just do it.
 
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epitome said:
If she's an attention wh0re, stay away from her.

If you decided you want to pursue per, though, games some other chicks first. Sounds like you have oneitis and you'll probably mess it up if you like her too much, so just broaden your horizons for awhile. Do this over the next few days. When Monday rolls around, start getting some heavy kino going on with her at lunch if you can and make eye contact. Pay attention to her body language and step back if it's closed. If she's using more open body language, tell her you guys are hanging out soon. When you do, bring in the kino and if it's going good go in for the kiss. Don't ask for it, just do it.
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no oneintis..i said i put 0 effort in.

she uses heavy keeno and heavy eye contact, her body language is defiantly not closed i said i can be up against her
im just sure if shes an atention wh0re, ive never seen a girl who hugs so many different guys...but when i say its differnt with me its different..i think she is WAY attarcted to me but im not going to be 100% here
 
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naes420 said:
...i realy like her shes lights up my day and being around her realy makes my day sometimes..
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:flowers: oneitis
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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you're golden, lay the pipe.
 
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no not on x, im not that ****ing stupid...

but i think that she realy want to fvck me just by what she says and that too...she just makes its so blatently obvivous every single time any word with sex comes up she always finds a way to link it to me and her
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Admit it. Ur putting her on the pedestal.
 
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no not on x, im not that ****ing stupid...

but i think that she realy want to fvck me just by what she says and that too...she just makes its so blatently obvivous every single time any word with sex comes up she always finds a way to link it to me and her
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If you're so sure about it, what are you here for?
 
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how do you mean put on the pedastool....im here to get resureance because i cant realy ask my friends for it on this one (because we are all friends..as in the girl with them as well) and it wuld be fuking wierd but shes getting extremly clinged on me today and she calls me baby and love and im not gonna lie i am a virgin and i think i finaly got lucky
 
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you've already got good signs... just hangout with her then escalate it... hug to kiss... to... rubbing her nips

just hangout with her alone... then the next day at school you and all your friends will be wondering how cool and weird it was that you got together with your best-female-friend out of nowhere.
 
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Michele said:
you've already got good signs... just hangout with her then escalate it... hug to kiss... to... rubbing her nips

just hangout with her alone... then the next day at school you and all your friends will be wondering how cool and weird it was that you got together with your best-female-friend out of nowhere.
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oh yeah, something tells me that the next few weeks arent going to be so bad
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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dude this is so gay! she just ignores me all the time thgis whole week man.... and she wil talk aout people i know right in front of me n basicly jus ignor me..even around all my friends around me excpt me i mean wtf..exept when i say something she start rub my face again....god man why cant girls just be easy
 
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Dude. Isolate. Do you really expect her to suck you off in class?
 
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