So my roommates and I will sometimes go to McDonalds at like 11 at night because it's the only food place open in the town I go to college in. So we're there one night and this new girl that started working there started hitting on me while we were ordering and I played along. Even my roommates said so afterward. Not a big deal to me really, I mean it is what it is. So anyway whenever we go there at night she'll sometimes be really flirty (with just me) and other nights she'll just be quiet and just act like she's tired or bored or like a normal McDonald's employee. So what's her deal? Is she actually interested or is she just being a tease or what? Normally I'd just leave it only but I'm in the middle of a "dry spell" so it might be worth it. I'm 20 and I'm guessing she's 22 or 23ish. So what do you think I should do? Just leave it or ask for her number or something else?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
So the girl working at McDonalds started hitting on me...
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Th3Alchemist
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well if she's been flirty with you during work, you can't expect much more from her while she's on duty... i would get her number
just make the order:
"I would like number 2 normal, number 5 extra cheesy... and your phone number"
just make the order:
"I would like number 2 normal, number 5 extra cheesy... and your phone number"
Mike32ct
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^This.
VladPatton
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Next time she's chatty work in the number. My friend dated a register chick for 3 yrs from Burger King during an order. Just asked her number and that was that.
You never know till you try.
You never know till you try.
Thanks guys. Hopefully next time I go in there if she's chatty I'll ask for her number. Is it ever a good idea to give her my number? Try something like "oh hey I have these coupons" and then give her one real coupon and one with just my number on that says call me. I dunno maybe that just sounds like a stupid idea? If she is interested she would call or text me I guess but asking for her number isn't bad either. I just feel awkward asking for someone's number while they are working and around their co workers and everything.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Harry Wilmington
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It is NEVER a good idea to give a girl your number. YOU are the man, YOU are the one who is supposed to call, set up the date, etc. You giving her YOUR number is basically saying "I'm too much of a pvssy to try and call you myself, so I'm giving you my number instead, hoping you'll take pity on me and ask me out."sh8716 said:
Go in with a position of strength - next time you see her, just ask for the number. No really, it's that simple - order your food, then, if she's being flirty, as you're about to leave, turn back around, pull out your phone and say "oh hey - real quick, what's your number?"
And - and this last part is very important - when she gives you the number, DON'T TEXT HER. Texting KILLS relationships. Just get the number and leave, wait 2 to 4 days, then CALL her up and ask her for a date for 2 to 4 days later.
And that's it. Very simple stuff.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
I worked at mc donalds my sophomore and junior year and part of my senior year of high school. when i worked there i nefver had to go anywhere else to get a phone number. **** was fish in a barrell even for an AFC
i don't get the big deal? just say hey give me your number i want to call you sometime. if you make it some big stand downt hat's what it's gonna be.
i don't get the big deal? just say hey give me your number i want to call you sometime. if you make it some big stand downt hat's what it's gonna be.