"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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So the ex texted me

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noobolgy said:
I can’t get rid of my hope that he will tell me how much he misses me and that he wants to get back together, though. I don’t really want to get back together. At least I know in my head that I don’t. I guess I just am looking for advice on how to get rid of my ridiculous hope that he will come back. I feel like it’s just going to keep me from completely moving on. So any advice on how to quit hoping would be awesome. Thanks!"
Thats so ****ed up lol
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Lotus Effect said:
And Justin11.

There is a point that has been missed throughout this discussion.

The point is. Why the fu*k are you in a Facebook group with your ex?!
This is a bad idea man! Get the fuc* out of if ASAP.
We're part of the same friend group and we have a Facebook group for it. We use it to make plans and arrange things
 

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justin11 said:
We're part of the same friend group and we have a Facebook group for it. We use it to make plans and arrange things
You are just making excuses for yourself because secretly you want to get back with her. Get new friends.
 
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