“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Ares

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Allright here's a success story that took place last night.

Me and five of my buddy's went clubbing, we came early so we drank a little and generaly sat in the bar and scoped for any HB's. It did not go well, there where no one that got my attension, so we moved doen to the dance club downstairs.
One minute after we came down my buddy saw two hb's, one was a 6 and the other an 8. Offcourse I took the the 8:D
So without anydoubt, running tactics trough my head or any other excuse I went and started a conversation. It went something like this:
A: Hey, you two look bored.
HB8: yeah, there isnt any fun here tonight.
A: well offcourse you dont have fun, your just sitting still and watching people dance.
HB8: lol, I know but there isnt any good music.
A: and what do you define as good music, your highness.
HB8: trance, stuff like that. (the DJ kept playing hip-hop)
A: well you have to use your imagination, play trance in your head and come dance with me.
HB8: I dont know, I usualy dont dance with strangers. I dont even know your name.
A: I'll give it to you...if you come with me on the dance floor.
HB: Im still not sure..
A: listen here, what would you rather tell you friends about tomorow. That you sat in the bar and was completely bored and missed out a\on the cath of the day(me) or that you had the time of your life with this totaly amasing guy.

two seconds later we are on the dance floor. Danced for about three songs and then I split.
A: I gotta get back to my friends, but I'll see you later.
HB8 gives me a kiss and looks at me all the way back to my friends. I get back to my group and we talk trash for half an hour.

I decide to get a bite to eat, I know there is a Mcdonalds tw blocks from the club. Go outside and see HB8 and her friend wlaking a dog.
A: hey you with the dog(damn I forgot her name)
HB turns around and smiles.
A: so this is how you earn you daily bread, waling dogs in the middle of the night.
HB: no this is my dog, he was in the back of the car.
I do some more small talk and cuddle with the dog. Funny thing is, she said the dog usualy dint like strangers but he was completly in love with me.
A: that is a smart dog you have here, a real people knower.
HB laughs and gets wery close.
A: so do you know about a good place to eat around here?
HB: theres a mcdonalds right up this street.
So there is, noe why hadnt I noticed that
;)
I get real close to her, play a little with her hear and give her a peck on the cheeck, then moves from the cheeck to a total "clash of the tunges". I then break from her, saying that now Im really hungry and heads off for mcdonalds.

Now for the mistakes I did.
-had my hand on her back and did a little itsy bitsy spider, she turns her head, I get all afc and move my hand instantly, and guess what she was smiling. no need for that insecure sh*t.
-forgot to get her number, and her name....damn Im flaky sometimes:rolleyes:

now for the funny sh*t, Im 17 right and she looked 19 maybe 20. Turns out she was 25, so thats a new record for me in age difference.:D
Thats about it guess....
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Julian

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Not bad. Why didnt you get her number though?
 

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Why didnt you get her number though?
He forgot too. Doh!


Besides the last part you did well Ares. Next time remember her name and get the digits!
 

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In most instances, it would be nice to get the number but and all instances what really matters is that you have a good time. Seems like you did so good job.

One more thing. You said you are seventeen but you were drinking at the club....milk?
 

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no not milk, the club was aged 18 but I borrowed my friends ID so it wasnt a problem....
 
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