"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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So Suave Power Rankings (1000 Like Club)

bigneil

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So Suave was reformatted in 2015 to support Likes (previously it had a strange system of weighted credits or debits). For that reason, the older members don't have the same like percentage (which would be another useful statistic).

Based on total likes here are the top 12 SoSuave members (each has between 1000 and 2000 likes):

1) Poon King (1915)
2) Desdinova (1804)
3) Bible Belt (1628)
4) marmel75 (1528)
5) Espi (1454)
6) deesade (1283)
7) Tictac (1276)
8) RangerMike (1243)
9) El Payaso (1230)
10) guru1000 (1063)
11) Atom Smasher (1048)
12) LiveYourDream (1016)

Congratulations to these members for over 16000 combined likes!

The top 20 are here:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/members/?type=likes
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Solomon

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damn i don't know half these names and I have been here nearly 10 years.....it's already been 10 years? :D
 

bigneil

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I must say, Poon King deserves the title of late.
 

devilkingx2

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damn i don't know half these names and I have been here nearly 10 years.....it's already been 10 years? :D
you must not come here too often then lol
 

ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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Lol Tictac got banned. He didn't really post useful advice, he was just such a huge ******* that his posts were funny. Whatever happened to guru though? I recall that he said if he didn't become a millionaire with 5 years, he would take a gun and kill himself and was serious about it. Not gonna assume the worst, but I do wonder what happened to him because I always liked his posts.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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l_e_g_e_n_d

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Whatever happened to guru though? I recall that he said if he didn't become a millionaire with 5 years, he would take a gun and kill himself and was serious about it. Not gonna assume the worst, but I do wonder what happened to him because I always liked his posts.
From what I remember reading in his thread, he was already 7-figure status. He was describing a story and conviction he put forth five years earlier to get him to where he was.
 

El Payaso

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Lol Tictac got banned. He didn't really post useful advice, he was just such a huge ******* that his posts were funny. Whatever happened to guru though? I recall that he said if he didn't become a millionaire with 5 years, he would take a gun and kill himself and was serious about it. Not gonna assume the worst, but I do wonder what happened to him because I always liked his posts.
I highly doubt that.
 

zekko

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