"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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So Suave Needs Login Restrictions ASAP!

Clark Kent

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Monstar from Puahate is probably going to hardwire this to his collection of So Suave ridicules.

Mods, can you get some Login Restrictions on here to clamp down on the Trolls? As I don't feel its safe for members talking about their personal lifes and having guys out there, looking at this and finding out where they live, etc.

Its not fair, and its not safe.

Those guys are going crazy with exposing forum members and PUAs. Including house locations, phone numbers and Facebook pages.

Don't worry about the trolls who actually bomb on the board, worry about the silent killers? :moon:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Scars

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^ Agreed.

If you are even a tad bit internet savy you know better than to expose personal information. I would never post my myspace/facebook here, whether for criticism or what have you. There's too many stories here of peoples lives being ruined by people exposing them. Although I don't think there is any shame in being involved in the PUA community, if you don't want to be exposed then simply don't put up your personal information.

And I checked out that PUAhate site real quick. It seems the majority of it's members are females. Are they bitter because some noobie read a few mystery method techniques and approached them and failed horribly? I think that's the case. The other members are probably men who can't get laid, especially the ones that spent thousands of dollars on seminars and books and still haven't even gotten to second base. I feel bad that they have to consume their lives with hating on the community.
 

Michael Walker

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Please i need your openion, do you think she is interested in me?

Met this lady friend of ma sis who used to visit us, ba now has temporary relocated. We’v bin friends for a while and am interested in her ba doesn't know if she's interestd in me too. We normaly chat and talk on phone ba she doesn't open up much to allow fluent conversation. She normaly gives simple answers to ma qtns n doesn't keep our conversations going, yet she pick ma calls n answers evry message i send to her. I asked for her relationship status she said, ”yh sorta”. D fact is we dnt meet cos we’r far apart, ba we chat n tlk on phone. I knw her to b extrovert n she tlks so much wen wth friends ba wen we r chating or tlking on phone she doesn't open up. I ones asked y she hardly ask anything abt me, she said she respect peoples privacy n doesn't wnt to invade mine. We’ve bin friends for two months. Do u think she’s interested in me or not. Pls i need ur openion?
 
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