"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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So Suave interview thread?

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What do posters feel about an interview thread/ callout thread on interviewing other posters?

The poster doing the interview gets to ask them whatever questions related to chicks, their experiences etc. while the interviewee answers them best they can without revealing too much personal info.

Perhaps a list of questions posters would like to ask of their favorite or least favorite member instead of just counting on replies from those with the most green dots.

IE: Interviewer who wants to ask questions posting a thread with their questions directly to that poster and a title with their name IE: "Aristippus Interview thread" asking them about their process, club game, dealing with chicks, online, whatever then let other posters respond after the questions are answered by the poster who's being interviewed.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Sounds interesting.
 

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Gotta think of some good questions (whatever you want to ask that the posters would possibly answer) and would like to see others conduct their own question interview thread (picking one poster): Backbreaker, PHM, Aristippus, Solomon,PureFilth, Atom Smasher, Colossus, t1ts, Bukowski Merit, JohnChops, Vladpatton, Zarky, Bradd80, BeDJ or whomever you feel like asking questions (as many as you want. try to remeber them all and put them in your first post so the interviewee can answer in one reply.) to get more of their own personal experiences and views quickly in each of their own threads.
 

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You should bring me and Mike32ct in here. There's quite a number of posters who give pretty darn good advice here and contribute a lot here.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Whomever wants to interview whoever put up seperate threads with the name of the poster you want to interview in the headline. I forgot Nismo and Mike32ct. (I'd try to have each poster pick someone and put up their own interview thread.) Breaks up the BS threads and could give a pretty good read. Whomever else posting can ask more questions of the interviewee in their specific titled thread in posts in case something was forgotten or they wanted more explaination etc.

Nismo pick someone and make a thread. Same with Solomon. pick one poster and ask whatever you think they'll answer..Copy and paste mine or make your own up or better questions etc.

Ex: Everyone asks BeDJ (if anything is missed in his interview thread)

We just need to make sure that posters don't pick the same poster with two seperate threads...
 
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Welcome to Late Night with HumbleNinja talk show :cheer:

Since you are the host, why don't you make all those threads yourself?

Those guys on SS are probably too shy to do it themselves. :)
 

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The Simple Man said:
Welcome to Late Night with HumbleNinja talk show :cheer:

Since you are the host, why don't you make all those threads yourself?

Those guys on SS are probably too shy to do it themselves. :)
I'd use the same questions I did in a three thread limit and someone else may get better answers being the interviewer. (Anyone else may think of better questions to ask a different poster they feel like interviewing.)

pick one poster. whomever you want to: Nismo, Purefilth, Bradd80, Backbreaker, T1ts, PHM, Aristippus, Vladpatton, JohnChops, AtomSmasher, Desdinova, Zekko, Danger, Zarky, Solomon, Mike32ct etc. and copy and paste the questions I asked in my BeDJ interview thread and title it "Official Late Night(whomever poster you pick) interview thread" with the questions I asked and or add/ask your own thread on the discussion forums. I guess interesting questions whatever you think they'll answer. breaks up the BS and may give interesting thoughts and answers and other questions for each poster in their own thread.

Each poster should pick and name the person they will do their interview thread on in here so no one has more than one thread for their interview..Even if someone already picks the person you'd have wanted to ask questions you can ask them in their own thread. after they respond to the interviewers first questions with yours or our own follow ups etc..
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I did BeDJ and Purefilth. Those two have their own threads. Someone else can do others. Just copy and paste my questions or add make up your own questions for whomever you feel like mods etc. Just post their username who you are going to post the interview thread in here for in red letters so others can see you are going to make an interview thread for them. Should be pretty interesting to read.
 

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Good idea because it's always helpful to know the background of the person giving advice.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Though I don't have a gang of experience, I'll f*ck with it.
 

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Im down, this is a very cool idea and read alot of them already
 
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Hey NinjaMan, you may want to update the OP with the already done interviews.

I have done yours, Burroughs' and Desdinova's.
 

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This is not a bad idea at all. I'll volunteer if anyone is interested. If not, I'll just nuzzle up to my bottle of Geritol and read quietly.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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