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[captain underpants]

i think we can all help each other out in these forums by stop being so hostile and aggressive towards each other and start using positive reinforcement. The only time when we should hostility, aggression, and name calling and such is when your doing writings or satire on this site. I think instead of helping people and calling them pvzzy's you don't help anyone out.

 

[Warrior74]

I understand where you coming from OP. I used to get picked on by my big brother as a kid. He used to call me names and be real agressive and I would be a crybaby and cry about it. It took me growing up to realize his true intention...half of it was because I as an annoying creep little bro, but the other half was to make me tough enough to survive the world. My rotc drill instructor used to call us all sorts of names. Sticks and stones. Sometimes when you are being an idiot you need to hear it. A woman isn't gonna tell you to your face, so you should be happy that your bros care enough to tell you to your face. Or at least online in the case of sosuave. If you can't take a little name calling how are you gonna handle a wild ass party bytch who is liable to do anything and everything including insulting your manhood or fuking your best friend? Toughen up. Men are agressive in the real world. Get used to it. Ever play football? We talk **** to the other team and they talk sh1t to us...use that sh1t as motivation. Don't ask us to be nicer, you be stronger.

 

[Warrior74]

I understand where you coming from OP. I used to get picked on by my big brother as a kid. He used to call me names and be real agressive and I would be a crybaby and cry about it. It took me growing up to realize his true intention...half of it was because I as an annoying creep little bro, but the other half was to make me tough enough to survive the world. My rotc drill instructor used to call us all sorts of names. Sticks and stones. Sometimes when you are being an idiot you need to hear it. A woman isn't gonna tell you to your face, so you should be happy that your bros care enough to tell you to your face. Or at least online in the case of sosuave. If you can't take a little name calling how are you gonna handle a wild ass party bytch who is liable to do anything and everything including insulting your manhood or fuking your best friend? Toughen up. Men are agressive in the real world. Get used to it. Ever play football? We talk **** to the other team and they talk sh1t to us...use that sh1t as motivation. Don't ask us to be nicer, you be stronger.

 

[The Logical Player]

positive reinforcement psychologically makes the AFC think that he doesn't TRULY need to change.

I was once ridiculed by a close friend for being out of shape and overweight, and he would be mean about it.........what did i do? I lost 30 lbs in a month and started to have the look of a guy who would go on to f*ck many many girls in the 5 years after I lost the weight.

 

[captain underpants]

alright well im not getting called a pvzzy on these forums but i see other guys who get called it alot and i dont understand how it helps them?
like when they have low self esteem u guys all call them pvzzys
idk it doesnt make sense to me

 

[RFish]

Well that is just the culture of this forum.

Different countries, different schools, different class and different family has got different culture. Or sometimes it is just actually the emotions that the poster is trying to portray because whatever he reads disgusts him too much so he got to let it out somehow if not he will die of diarrhoea from taking too much junk.

I don't think you can change it and it is still good. New comers will take notice of this and not get affected by this in the long run.

The Logical Player: It works for you because maybe your friend has never go around talking aobut people. You can talk nicely and people will still take and accept. If your friend has been going around insulting then what he say will obviously weight nothing because then, you will see more of that as his new hobby and not really of kind intentions for you to improve.

So yea, just let this be.