So Suave DJ’s FEAR hot chicks?

[djjizzyjeff]

It seems most So Suave “DJs” fear hot chicks and rationalize their fears of them by seeing HB's as the "enemy" or generalize all hot chicks to comfort their own fragile egos due to past failures or future possible perceived failures with HBs.

It’s either your pickers are completely off in choosing the types of chicks you do (since there’s loads of threads on BPD/ slores etc) or “DJ’s” are simply KJing and observing what they perceive about these same hot chicks from afar rather than actually getting to know them.

There is nothing to fear but fear itself.

Instead of trying to find every little sign that a chick could fit into whatever negative category you think all hot chicks fit into try actually getting to know a few. True there are some chicks who throw up red flags but if you are looking for "red flags" constantly you might be making a few up in order to protect yourself from even getting to know the chick. Don't completely ignore red flags, but then again don't use every little thing as an excuse not to approach and then automatically assume everything about a chick you never met simply because her beauty makes you afraid and insecure.

 

[TheFapPrince]

Now I know why chicks seems to "fear" me.

 

[Skyline]

It seems most So Suave “DJs” fear hot chicks and rationalize their fears of them by seeing HB's as the "enemy" or generalize all hot chicks to comfort their own fragile egos due to past failures or future possible perceived failures with HBs.

It’s either your pickers are completely off in choosing the types of chicks you do (since there’s loads of threads on BPD/ slores etc) or “DJ’s” are simply KJing and observing what they perceive about these same hot chicks from afar rather than actually getting to know them.

There is nothing to fear but fear itself.

Instead of trying to find every little sign that a chick could fit into whatever negative category you think all hot chicks fit into try actually getting to know a few. True there are some chicks who throw up red flags but if you are looking for "red flags" constantly you might be making a few up in order to protect yourself from even getting to know the chick. Don't completely ignore red flags, but then again don't use every little thing as an excuse not to approach and then automatically assume everything about a chick you never met simply because her beauty makes you afraid and insecure.

I agree with the

True there are some chicks who throw up red flags but if you are looking for "red flags" constantly you might be making a few up in order to protect yourself from even getting to know the chick. Don't completely ignore red flags, but then again don't use every little thing as an excuse not to approach and then automatically assume everything about a chick you never met simply because her beauty makes you afraid and insecure.

but i don't see where you're getting your information from "most" DJ's from SS from. They all take the time to approach and gather assumptions that eventually come to actual judgement, whether positive or negative.

Most DJ's assume negative things toward hotter women because they have a higher chance of being affected by the Nice guy/AFC generation which gives them the feeling of owning everything and everyone, and more attractive women/people tend to have more extreme psychological baggage(Abused,Molested,Raped). I don't think there's any shame or fear on protecting yourself and not wasting any time.

There's a difference between assuming something about someone and judging someone about something.

 

[badboyjmm]

I have to agree with your assessment, once your learn about dealing with women, you tend to make sure you don't get screw up and you over-protect yourself.

We gotta remember that it's suppose to be fun meeting and dealing with those girls. When we just focus on the negative, that's when you get bitter and don't approach chicks (something that I have to work on, and I'm starting today)

 

[Chamber36]

But, mostly I hate really hot chicks because they have a control over me, make me feel sad when I see them (because I know my dream of having one will never come true), and I envy the joy they bring to whatever lucky guy is with them.

I was different when I was younger, I used to believe if I just worked on myself I could achieve it. At 31, I have realised that if you aren't scoring hot chicks when you are young, you won't when you are older, unless you get extremely wealthy (in any case you wont be scoring her for long unless you have the looks).

I am horribly bitter about this, but when you have lost in this dating game, the only weapon you have against the b1tches who rejected you is pure hate, and I really am sincere when I say - they are all the same. All HBs are one and the same and deserve you derision.

Damn those hot girls have really had a bad effect on you.

You should have seen the girls I was hanging out with last night. I bet they would have made you red-hot with anger, they were so hot!! I could barely stand it myself! But not because I was angry, because one of them was making my d1ck h4rd, that's why.

But it's a good thing I've been going out and clubbing since I was about 14 or 15, talking to thousands of girls and getting some of the necessary reassurances from HB9's around.

Come to think of it.... I fvcking hate HB7's and HB8's! They are the worst! Always looking at me with that envy that I am better looking than them. I hope they rot in hell because even though I get pvssy from them, they are usually insecure and wanna bring me down. (no, just kidding. To all the HB7's and Hb8's out there reading this - know that I believe women all to be special or beautiful in their own way )

 

[Purefilth]

I agree with the

but i don't see where you're getting your information from "most" DJ's from SS from. They all take the time to approach and gather assumptions that eventually come to actual judgement, whether positive or negative.

Most DJ's assume negative things toward hotter women because they have a higher chance of being affected by the Nice guy/AFC generation which gives them the feeling of owning everything and everyone, and more attractive women/people tend to have more extreme psychological baggage(Abused,Molested,Raped).Seriously - Where did you come by this Info? - Honestly? Are you just making sh1t up? I think so..

lol @ the bold bit

And YOUR description of "Most DJ's"is inaccurate. Possibly "Men starting out on their path to Don Jaunism" would be more fitting.

A true Don Jaun does not fear or assume negatives.

Always Assume Attraction