Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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DemFeeelz

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Why are there so many cvntradictions with So Suavers? Is it the holiday season? That time of month? Sexual frustration?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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zekko

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Like Mauser says, there are a lot of different viewpoints. There are a lot of different people, with different goals, with different ways of getting there. And that's how it should be.

I think the community suffers when it gets too bogged down in dogma, trying to come up with universal truths for everything, instead of retaining some built in flexibility. "All girls will always do B when confronted with C", that sort of thing is overstated and not helpful, IMO. What works for you might not work for me, and vice versa.
 

BetterCallSaul

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GettinMyMindRight said:
Come here often enough and the whining and complaining will rub off on you.

Every single thread in the general discussion forum is someone bellyaching about a petty little problem common sense should be able to answer for him.

This forum has helped me infinitely, and now that I'm much further along in my Don Juan'dom, its frustrating to see so much crap about "what should I text her?"

When someone does post a thread with informative material, nobody replies.

Just like society, this board is filled with so many people who want to feel sorry for themselves.

Yes, I'm drinking Dos Equis right now. :yes:
This right here. Seems like greater than 50% of the crap I read today is along the lines of "what should I text?" or "how do i reply to this facebook post?"

Being tied up in so much online bulls#it isn't going to be healthy for any sort of long-term plans in life plus it demonstrates an inherent lack of critical thinking skills. Texting and general online crap has been addressed here before which is to say keep it at a bare minimum.
 
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