"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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DemFeeelz

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Why are there so many cvntradictions with So Suavers? Is it the holiday season? That time of month? Sexual frustration?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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zekko

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Like Mauser says, there are a lot of different viewpoints. There are a lot of different people, with different goals, with different ways of getting there. And that's how it should be.

I think the community suffers when it gets too bogged down in dogma, trying to come up with universal truths for everything, instead of retaining some built in flexibility. "All girls will always do B when confronted with C", that sort of thing is overstated and not helpful, IMO. What works for you might not work for me, and vice versa.
 

BetterCallSaul

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GettinMyMindRight said:
Come here often enough and the whining and complaining will rub off on you.

Every single thread in the general discussion forum is someone bellyaching about a petty little problem common sense should be able to answer for him.

This forum has helped me infinitely, and now that I'm much further along in my Don Juan'dom, its frustrating to see so much crap about "what should I text her?"

When someone does post a thread with informative material, nobody replies.

Just like society, this board is filled with so many people who want to feel sorry for themselves.

Yes, I'm drinking Dos Equis right now. :yes:
This right here. Seems like greater than 50% of the crap I read today is along the lines of "what should I text?" or "how do i reply to this facebook post?"

Being tied up in so much online bulls#it isn't going to be healthy for any sort of long-term plans in life plus it demonstrates an inherent lack of critical thinking skills. Texting and general online crap has been addressed here before which is to say keep it at a bare minimum.
 
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