"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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So some women flip out about guns...

Da Realist

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Huffman said:
Seriously guys. Perhaps the girl grew up outside of the USA? Because everywhere else in the world, you DO NOT WANT TO BE near people with guns. In a civilized country!

You need guns in your car? To fend off an attack? Where do you live, in a third world ghetto? Or perhaps the mafia is out to get you? Get real. I think you people have seen to many B-Movies.
Why don't you take your guns to bed with you? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LsV50T5uEyw
Seriously, I'll never get you Americans. The "greatest nation on earth", where life is so dangerous that you need a gun. Talk about hypocrisy.
You have to undestand that there are two America's: the sunny one some people believe and try to pass off, and the real America where you've got things going on you don't want to be involved with. Most of the time if you know your setting, you don't realy need the gun. There are times though when it may be a good idea to take something with you.

Now with this girl, you don't know her history so it's no use splitting hairs. Since I don' know what you look like, you may have seemed like a gun nut, dealer, or just some paranoid guy. Maybe you acted too serious on the date and she thought you may snap. Maybe she thinks men who have big guns compensate for something else (and a .45 is on the larger end) . Maybe she saw someone killed with a gun. Maybe she's been robbed at gunpoint. Maybe she is part of a secret society that decided to use hand to hand combat over weapons and she thought you were from a rival group. What does it matter? It's in her head and she has to deal with it.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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