"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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So so selfish-How can you not

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It is a proven fact that by nature humans are selfish (all want our own self forfillment). Every action all ends with the intent of gaining happiness. She doesnt want you with someone else because if you do she wont be happy. What about what you want? Selfish. "You should wait until Im in the mood". Selfish. So know ultimitely every decision 97% of the time is based on self forfillment. That means every statement that comes from every woman's mouth. She's is ultimitely trying to manupulate you to bring her whatever she deems as happiness.


Crying over nothing=manupulation
Getting angry and storming off=manupulation
No I wont give you mine, but Ill take your number=manupulation


I know women who personally told me that they know the power of crying and can do it on demand. That is why its called GAME, its simply everyone doing something to ensure their happiness.


Raw truth or being striaght is not in a woman's nature its in ours, and on the flip side women rarely believe anything you tell them. They always, and I do mean always read between the lines. This is why you can be a forth coming with a woman and it gets you nowhere.


Basically your job in this world is to go for yours, using that beautiful brain or yours, to manupulate any situation you can.


ps=even charity is a selfish act in the end, because it makes you feel good.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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This is for all those guys who are always trying to figure out what does she mean when she says, or say that you should just let it be how it be. Please, those with strategy wins dont who dont dont.
 

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good work man! i'm preaching that stuff in real life about everybody being selfish even/especially with good deeds, but people don't want to listen. i think they prefer a selfimage being nice and sweet and me being a bad boy lol, get in touch with reality peeps.
 

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I learned this while in highschool. Most people are selfish and so are most of their actions. If you don't look after yourself , who will then? However, once in awhile someone might perform an action that can be considered of non-selfish nature. Necessarly because you benefit from an action you took doesn't mean it's a selfish action if you didn't have intent of gaining something in return. Nothing wrong with being a little selfish, it ensures your survival.
 

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i wouldnt say anything but its systematic

the word is "fulfillment" not "forfillment"

the word is "manipulate" not "manupulate"
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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