"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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So she's an 'old fashioned' girl

newb

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Old fashioned = boring/way too much work on my part

Majority of the other girls Ive been with were the exact opposite. I think I might let her stick around for a bit and see if it gets anymore interesting.

Anyone else have any experience with this type of a girl??
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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theres no such thing as an old fashioned girl. just girls who dont want you thinking they are sluts.

trust me, the "old fashioned" line is another trick to test you. It's basically "so im going to expect everything from you that I'd expect from any other guy. but I'm not going to give much back in return, becuase im old fashioned".

id tease her about being old fashioned. Say things like "so you dont think women should be able to vote? you don't think black people should be allowed to ride the bus?" etc.

When she clearly shows that shes NOT old fashioned, she'll have to admit that she means she isn't interested in sex. then say 'oh, you have intimacy issues? I understand. we can work on that"

hehe. bust her whole game up good.

J
 

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having an old fasioned chick is fine, as long as she doesn't change her mind and divorce you, and stick you with an old fasioned child suport

chicks are old fasoined, when it suits them

it's a womans perogative to change her mind.
 

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Thats kind of what I was hoping it might be.

Makes sense too since she's not big on PDA - actually it makes her nervous as hell. haha :down:
 

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theres no such thing as an old fashioned girl. just girls who dont want you thinking they are sluts.

dont be dellusional...

not everyone is wht you want to make them out to be.


im sure every single women on the planet is a HUGE slut and wants to fyck ever guy out there
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
dont be dellusional...

not everyone is wht you want to make them out to be.


im sure every single women on the planet is a HUGE slut and wants to fyck ever guy out there
lol
 

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I just dont see why people cant accept reality.


not every girl is a slut

not every girl is a good girl!


its really that simple.


if she is old fashion...u dont like it.


DONT DATE HER
 

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
I just dont see why people cant accept reality.


not every girl is a slut

not every girl is a good girl!


its really that simple.


if she is old fashion...u dont like it.


DONT DATE HER
I guess for the same reason people say the reason they can't score in england is because the weather is bad and therefore women arnt nice!
 

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my girl was the old fashioned type until she met me :trouble:

believe me, if you press the right buttons, then they will open up.

I like the old fashioned women so send them over here if you don't want them (whenever and if I am single again)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

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Originally posted by joekerr31
theres no such thing as an old fashioned girl. just girls who dont want you thinking they are sluts.

trust me, the "old fashioned" line is another trick to test you. It's basically "so im going to expect everything from you that I'd expect from any other guy. but I'm not going to give much back in return, becuase im old fashioned".

This is spot on. I couldnt have said it better myself.
 
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