"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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So she's an 'old fashioned' girl

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Old fashioned = boring/way too much work on my part

Majority of the other girls Ive been with were the exact opposite. I think I might let her stick around for a bit and see if it gets anymore interesting.

Anyone else have any experience with this type of a girl??
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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theres no such thing as an old fashioned girl. just girls who dont want you thinking they are sluts.

trust me, the "old fashioned" line is another trick to test you. It's basically "so im going to expect everything from you that I'd expect from any other guy. but I'm not going to give much back in return, becuase im old fashioned".

id tease her about being old fashioned. Say things like "so you dont think women should be able to vote? you don't think black people should be allowed to ride the bus?" etc.

When she clearly shows that shes NOT old fashioned, she'll have to admit that she means she isn't interested in sex. then say 'oh, you have intimacy issues? I understand. we can work on that"

hehe. bust her whole game up good.

J
 

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having an old fasioned chick is fine, as long as she doesn't change her mind and divorce you, and stick you with an old fasioned child suport

chicks are old fasoined, when it suits them

it's a womans perogative to change her mind.
 

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Thats kind of what I was hoping it might be.

Makes sense too since she's not big on PDA - actually it makes her nervous as hell. haha :down:
 

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theres no such thing as an old fashioned girl. just girls who dont want you thinking they are sluts.

dont be dellusional...

not everyone is wht you want to make them out to be.


im sure every single women on the planet is a HUGE slut and wants to fyck ever guy out there
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
dont be dellusional...

not everyone is wht you want to make them out to be.


im sure every single women on the planet is a HUGE slut and wants to fyck ever guy out there
lol
 

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I just dont see why people cant accept reality.


not every girl is a slut

not every girl is a good girl!


its really that simple.


if she is old fashion...u dont like it.


DONT DATE HER
 

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
I just dont see why people cant accept reality.


not every girl is a slut

not every girl is a good girl!


its really that simple.


if she is old fashion...u dont like it.


DONT DATE HER
I guess for the same reason people say the reason they can't score in england is because the weather is bad and therefore women arnt nice!
 

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my girl was the old fashioned type until she met me :trouble:

believe me, if you press the right buttons, then they will open up.

I like the old fashioned women so send them over here if you don't want them (whenever and if I am single again)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Originally posted by joekerr31
theres no such thing as an old fashioned girl. just girls who dont want you thinking they are sluts.

trust me, the "old fashioned" line is another trick to test you. It's basically "so im going to expect everything from you that I'd expect from any other guy. but I'm not going to give much back in return, becuase im old fashioned".

This is spot on. I couldnt have said it better myself.
 
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