Theres this girl that Im interested in and her name is Lily. To be honest my last gf is hotter than her, but this girl is very pretty. kinda skinny and shorter than my ex. I met her through my friends gf who for some reason tried to set me up with her. At that time my interest wasnt high enough because I thought that she was kindof fobbish(Fresh of the Boat) because she dressed and spoked as if she was from Hong Kong. I on the other hand consider myself to be bicultural. I was born in China but came here when I was two. I have fully assimilated into the American culture and at the same time still embrace my Chinese culture. It took me a while to get a chance to talk to her because she went to China for a month, so I sent her a message through friendsters days before she left. I guess at that time my interest was increasing. My impression of her was that she seemed quiet and kindof shy because the few times that I have seen her she would walk away whenever I approached her.
well when she came back her friends and my friends met up at a club. My friends and her friends were telling her to talk to me and dance with me, but she would again walk away with one of her girl friends. I didnt chase after her so i decided to dance with other girls. Well that night didnt go according to plans. I took like four shots and didnt feel very well and ended up chilling outside of the club. My friend got really messed up and left the club so the whole group decided to leave. I didnt get a chance to dance with her, but I did freak other girls. Well later on that night there was some huge drama between my friend Carl and his gf Annie and also with my friend Nick and his gf Linda. That whole night was ruin because we left the club too early and I didnt get a chance to dance or have a meaningful conversation with her. A week later I sent her a message through friendsters, this time by saying that we should kick it sometime and also asking for her number. It took her a day to answer my message. She didnt give me her # but she did give me her Screen name. I was like Okay, I can respect that. I mean she doesnt know me that well. On that same week after I came home from a friends party My friend Carl called me at 2 a.m. saying that Lily is over at his gf annie's house. In the background I could hear Annie telling me to come over and that Lilly really wanted to see me. They tried to give her the phone. It seemed like they were trying to pass the phone to lily but she kept running away. I told them that it was getting late and that I didnt have my car so I wasnt able to drive to the house. On that weekend I went on friendsters and checked her profile. On the part Who I want to meet? she put that she would never go for a younger guy no matter what her good friends are telling her to do. Her comments seemed very defensive which also offended me because yes I am younger but that doesnt mean that Im immature. She barley knows me. In fact at that time she knew nothing about me. So inorder to Counter her defensive and judgemental comments I also wrote something on my friendsters. It was a description of who I am. I wrote that I am educated and ambitious. I also wrote that other people should not judge others without getting to know them first. I never mentioned her name and made the paragraph seem like it was directed to people that dont know me well instead of her.
I also dramtically improve my profile. I looked at my old profile and I could understand why some people might see me as immature because I wrote some stupid stuff, but didnt care because I thought that only my friends will read my profile. I didnt see it as a tool to getting girls.
I waited 2 weeks before deciding to look for her online to chat with her. when I chatted with her she seemed less defensive maybe because it was online and not in person. I actually enjoyed chatting with her and it seems as though she enjoyed chatting with me. I kept the conversation lite and funny. I would chat with her no more than twice a week. everytime I chat with her it seems as though she is feeling more comfortable with me. the fourth time we chatted I asked: What are you doing for new years? Lily: why, u wanna come? me: Im just asking. Lily: U wish you can come. Lily: yeah, you can if you want. Me: Hahhah. Lily: yeah but we are still not sure what we wanna do so......
Okay now she wants to hangout, but I still didnt ask for her #.
So last sunday i saw her online again. This time I asked her for her #.
I said: Now that my finals is over and that I have some free time, give me your number so that we can do something over my break.
Again she didnt give the # immediately. She ask if I was going to give her a gift. Then I said: Ill see if you deserve it or not.
Lily: ok u can call me if you are free, but I have to work. weekend is fine. thats all.
Then she gave me the first 3 digits and pretended that she forgot the last 4 digits. She kept lagging until she gave me the last 2 digits and told me to guess the missing middle 2 digits. I gave it a try until she gave me a hint. She made it interesting by playing this game. I was starting to like this girl.
I told my friend Kevin that I got lilys number. He told me that I should becareful what i type online because Lily would send our chat script to her friend Annie. I found that to be a bit immature. Another thing is that Annie told Kevin that in order to get Lily I should act like a drug dealer and a triad boss because she likes bad boys. What I know about her previous relationship is that her ex is a crack head and that she ended the 6 year relationship because of that. Now my question to you Dj's is that by using these Dj tactics can I still get this girl without actually being the bad boy. I know that Annie was probably trying to be funny and exagerating when she said that. I can tell you that Im a college student, have a part time job, likes to party, clubbing, not a weed head but occaisionally smoke the chronic, not a alcoholic but occaisionally drink the juice. I guess Im down for anything, but I also consider myself a good guy. Should I continue to be funny, ****y, confident, and challenging or this wont satisfy the need for a bad boy. I know I will never change myself just to get this girl, but I want some opinions about this. Oh yeah I havent called her yet. It hasnt been a week yet, plus Ill probably wait until after christmas. We have a lot in common like we are from the same city in China and I found out that shes not that Fobbish after all. She doesnt seem like a girl that would date a crack head. A lot of people who wrote testimonials on her friendsters claim that she is not the outgoing type and recommends that she go out and have more fun. I guess now shes listening to their advice.
well when she came back her friends and my friends met up at a club. My friends and her friends were telling her to talk to me and dance with me, but she would again walk away with one of her girl friends. I didnt chase after her so i decided to dance with other girls. Well that night didnt go according to plans. I took like four shots and didnt feel very well and ended up chilling outside of the club. My friend got really messed up and left the club so the whole group decided to leave. I didnt get a chance to dance with her, but I did freak other girls. Well later on that night there was some huge drama between my friend Carl and his gf Annie and also with my friend Nick and his gf Linda. That whole night was ruin because we left the club too early and I didnt get a chance to dance or have a meaningful conversation with her. A week later I sent her a message through friendsters, this time by saying that we should kick it sometime and also asking for her number. It took her a day to answer my message. She didnt give me her # but she did give me her Screen name. I was like Okay, I can respect that. I mean she doesnt know me that well. On that same week after I came home from a friends party My friend Carl called me at 2 a.m. saying that Lily is over at his gf annie's house. In the background I could hear Annie telling me to come over and that Lilly really wanted to see me. They tried to give her the phone. It seemed like they were trying to pass the phone to lily but she kept running away. I told them that it was getting late and that I didnt have my car so I wasnt able to drive to the house. On that weekend I went on friendsters and checked her profile. On the part Who I want to meet? she put that she would never go for a younger guy no matter what her good friends are telling her to do. Her comments seemed very defensive which also offended me because yes I am younger but that doesnt mean that Im immature. She barley knows me. In fact at that time she knew nothing about me. So inorder to Counter her defensive and judgemental comments I also wrote something on my friendsters. It was a description of who I am. I wrote that I am educated and ambitious. I also wrote that other people should not judge others without getting to know them first. I never mentioned her name and made the paragraph seem like it was directed to people that dont know me well instead of her.
I also dramtically improve my profile. I looked at my old profile and I could understand why some people might see me as immature because I wrote some stupid stuff, but didnt care because I thought that only my friends will read my profile. I didnt see it as a tool to getting girls.
I waited 2 weeks before deciding to look for her online to chat with her. when I chatted with her she seemed less defensive maybe because it was online and not in person. I actually enjoyed chatting with her and it seems as though she enjoyed chatting with me. I kept the conversation lite and funny. I would chat with her no more than twice a week. everytime I chat with her it seems as though she is feeling more comfortable with me. the fourth time we chatted I asked: What are you doing for new years? Lily: why, u wanna come? me: Im just asking. Lily: U wish you can come. Lily: yeah, you can if you want. Me: Hahhah. Lily: yeah but we are still not sure what we wanna do so......
Okay now she wants to hangout, but I still didnt ask for her #.
So last sunday i saw her online again. This time I asked her for her #.
I said: Now that my finals is over and that I have some free time, give me your number so that we can do something over my break.
Again she didnt give the # immediately. She ask if I was going to give her a gift. Then I said: Ill see if you deserve it or not.
Lily: ok u can call me if you are free, but I have to work. weekend is fine. thats all.
Then she gave me the first 3 digits and pretended that she forgot the last 4 digits. She kept lagging until she gave me the last 2 digits and told me to guess the missing middle 2 digits. I gave it a try until she gave me a hint. She made it interesting by playing this game. I was starting to like this girl.
I told my friend Kevin that I got lilys number. He told me that I should becareful what i type online because Lily would send our chat script to her friend Annie. I found that to be a bit immature. Another thing is that Annie told Kevin that in order to get Lily I should act like a drug dealer and a triad boss because she likes bad boys. What I know about her previous relationship is that her ex is a crack head and that she ended the 6 year relationship because of that. Now my question to you Dj's is that by using these Dj tactics can I still get this girl without actually being the bad boy. I know that Annie was probably trying to be funny and exagerating when she said that. I can tell you that Im a college student, have a part time job, likes to party, clubbing, not a weed head but occaisionally smoke the chronic, not a alcoholic but occaisionally drink the juice. I guess Im down for anything, but I also consider myself a good guy. Should I continue to be funny, ****y, confident, and challenging or this wont satisfy the need for a bad boy. I know I will never change myself just to get this girl, but I want some opinions about this. Oh yeah I havent called her yet. It hasnt been a week yet, plus Ill probably wait until after christmas. We have a lot in common like we are from the same city in China and I found out that shes not that Fobbish after all. She doesnt seem like a girl that would date a crack head. A lot of people who wrote testimonials on her friendsters claim that she is not the outgoing type and recommends that she go out and have more fun. I guess now shes listening to their advice.
