"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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So she slaps you on the ass

Wiesman44

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Well boys, I dont know how I did it, but I think i somehow seduced my first hot asian. Not the typical Asian, but the fun, extremely hot kind with size c naturals. I'm white, by the way.

She's a friend of a friend, and more of an acquaitence i know. All i need is some feedback from you guys. I suppose i just wanna hear everyone's opinion.

A bell first went off in my head when i was still seeing my ex-gf about 3.5 months ago, i was at a meeting in college, and she says, Wiesman, call me if you wanna hang out later as i was walking out of the room. I thought that was odd b/c we usually dont hang out. We only hung out when we were with mutual friends, which was VERY rare.

Last weekend I was at a party, soon as I got there, she screams Wiesman ! and jumps up from the couch, runs and gives me a big hug (she hadnt seen me in a while). Later on in the night when she was a little drunk, she slapped me on the ass, though i pretended like i didnt know who it was b/c i was playing beer pong and didnt need distractions from **** teases.

Now i did no kinoing whatsoever b/c i didnt think i wanted her at the time. Keeping in mind these are ALL the IL signs i have thus far. They may seem like a lot, but I'm still second guessing. I definitely didnt portray myself as the typical DJ whenever i was with her b/c i was w/ guy friends most of the time and didnt care about my impression i let out.

Whats everyon'es thoughts here. It would be somewhat weird if she wasn't interested b/c we have mutual friends and they would tell everyone. By her being interested, i mean want to f*ck me b/c she thinks its leading to a relationship, get some a$$ then dump her. it sounds horrible, but i know how this chick works and I plan on using it to my fullest. Its also probably gotten around that i've had a decent amount of hook-ups.....not too many, but maybe enough to get her thinking if she does know about 'em. WHat yall think ?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You're white. She's asian.

Your fucking foot is in the door already with the color of your skin.

This pisses me off. -_-
 

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she thinks it's leading into a relationship?

Are you even dating her? No. Get your ego off the soap box and try to hook up with her. Most likely she is just teasing and she got you suckered.
 

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That's right, even if you were 100% on your game, buff and successful in your career, they still would prefer a white guy over you wouldn't they.

Come on, stop with the easy excuses. Now white chicks going for big d1ck black blokes, that's true, it's not fair it's not fair, Mommy:D

Originally posted by ThunderMaverick
You're white. She's asian.

Your fucking foot is in the door already with the color of your skin.

This pisses me off. -_-
 

Wiesman44

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Originally posted by DeathDealer
she thinks it's leading into a relationship?

Are you even dating her? No. Get your ego off the soap box and try to hook up with her. Most likely she is just teasing and she got you suckered.

I said I know how this chick works. If i do end up making her think its leading to a relationship assuming she's interested, its a quickie for me. Maybe a usual hookup for a while.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Wiesman44

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Originally posted by ThunderMaverick
You're white. She's asian.

Your fucking foot is in the door already with the color of your skin.

This pisses me off. -_-
I hope you know I've worked very hard to get where I am today. 3 years ago I was 155lbs and 6 feet. Long, lanky, dorky, and knew nothing about women. Now, after dedication at the gym, i've gained 35 lbs of muscle, i'm 190 lbs and 6 feet, ive kept my waistline the same at 34 inches and lift A LOT. I've come from knowing nothing about girls to understanding how they work and how they think. I consider myself a good looking guy and I'm fun to be around socially now. I go to college, don't have a perfect GPA, but I work hard and have things going for me.

So if you think this girl likes me b/c I'm white, you are very mistaken bro. Im sure you havent put in nearly the amount of effor that I have, and you havent reaped the rewards yet. Things dont come easy in life, you have to work at it
 

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Don't listen to them. If you were saying how you got mad that an asian guy was dating a white chick, they'd call you racist. You did good bro, don't let the sour grapes get to you.
 

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Damn....Thats whats wrong with this board...Too much hate...All these posts with all this useless long winded disscussion and sh1t, and this dude gets some action and people want to get mad...Thats alot better then most people on here, at least hes doing something...
 

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I think he was jokin about being pissed... just a hunch..
 
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