"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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So she helped me upgrade my wardrobe, meaning?

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a girl showing you how to dress is not a good thing lol. that is her saying you aren't ugly but you have no sense of style and you don't turn me on.

i've never heard a girl say "damn this dude has a ****ty wardrobe, god dman this turns me on"

my bet is that she sees you as some type of placabo add on to what she has and wants to see you happy with the opposite sex, thus needing to upgrade your ****ty wardrobe. doesn't necessarily mean she sees her branch swigning towards you. women have all types of reasons for keeping men around, only one of which is beneficial to a man
 

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Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

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